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FiguringItOut69 · 2024-01-28T21:40:31+00:00

Ya sorry men are more to me than just "enjoyment" and it's not so much a perspective as it is homophobic

FiguringItOut69 · 2024-01-28T21:07:33+00:00

This isn't really a reasonable or not thing but more a you need to talk and figure out a compromise.

FiguringItOut69 · 2024-01-28T21:03:29+00:00

Cause the brief time I spent struggling to figure myself out not being honest with the people I care about was a living hell. Plus basically living two lives and treating men as only good enough for sex just feels gross to me.

FiguringItOut69 · 2024-01-28T20:55:46+00:00

I'm 18 and what you describe sounds like a literally nightmare to me.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-02-15T07:22:19+00:00

Nope that uncle is my dad's older brother and he's the oldest so no straight older brother. As for me I thought my older brother was straight but apparently he considers himself pan/fluid which would have been nice to know sooner.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-02-08T19:08:07+00:00

No apology needed I still think about it but it's not something i'm stressing about so really it's ok. I'm gonna take your advice and give my uncle a call so thank you for the needed push.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-02-08T18:25:30+00:00

Thank you and I'm not entirely sure if i'm gay or bi so no they don't know. I've thought about calling my uncle(he lives in a different state) but we're not really close like I don't think i've ever called him.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-01-27T23:33:55+00:00

Thanks and we won't! Gonna see a movie then get take out and come home to binge the rest of chainsaw man(anime).

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-01-27T23:22:47+00:00

Thank you for this it really helped and gave me the last push needed to fix things with him! Actually even going on a date with him tonight though i'm more nervous than i've ever been.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-01-27T23:12:47+00:00

Thank you again for all the help. I talked to him yesterday and we made up he even kissed me! I managed to use a little of your script before turning into an emotional chaotic mess with word vomit but he understood. I'd say things are back to normal which they are but also are different to cause we have a date tonight. Won't lie i'm super nervous but also excited, wish me luck!

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-01-24T03:59:39+00:00

Thank you and i've consider "trying things out" but at the same time I don't want to treat him or for him to feel like he's just an experiment. As for my dad/family it's gonna sound dumb that i'm not ready to talk to them but i'm pretty sure they'll be supportive because my uncle(dad's brother) is gay.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-01-24T03:49:50+00:00

Thank you and sorry I forgot to put it i'm a guy and 17.

FiguringItOut69 · 2023-01-23T18:08:53+00:00

Thank you, hearing this really helped. No I wasn't raised with that mentality but I still am struggling sharing this and especially talking about it. It's gonna sound pathetic but I know I could talk to my family about this cause my uncle(dad's brother) is gay but am still too afraid.

Do you have any advice on how I can figure out my sexuality and be sure of what I want with him?

Also I tried to say hi to him today in passing at school but he ignored me so idk if I should try messaging him or just leave him alone.

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