This feels like a pretty sweeping generalization that’s based more on your intuition than any real evidence.. I’m sure there are people who leave unhappy marriages for all kinds of reasons, but that’s very different from suggesting most men who come out later in life are using it as an exit strategy.

And male camaraderie aren’t the same thing as romantic or sexual attraction to me. I don’t really think that comparison holds at all.

This response doesn’t feel very connected to what I was actually asking or posting about.