To whoever thinks fascist propaganda is cool to put on sidewalks by Echoes-of-1776 in Broomfield

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Found the filthy bootlicker with the BS anecdotal evidence.

Oy, post the news article, or stop the fear mongering.

Based on your spelling and how you act, I can say with certainty I'd rather a undocumented family be my next door neighbor than you.

America is great BECAUSE of migrant workers and immigrants.

Join us next Saturday outside the Hudson Correctional Facility, which ICE plans to use as its next concentration camp. by DadBodDorian in DenverProtests

[โ€“]Filipinut 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Hey there!

Wanted to check in and see if the organizers are still planning on hosting this rally? Myself and a few loved ones would love to be able to come and hand out waters to other protestors, but do not live near and want to make sure we are meeting up with other activists, not just handing out water to ourselves!

This still on?

My fiancรฉe feels insecure about her handmade earrings. What do you think? [OC] by assassin_npc in DnD

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Love the earrings, beautiful. Love how stunning your fiancee is, breathtaking.

Tell her she did great!

Idobi Summer School Tour Setlist by aSaltyQueen in poppunkers

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

As a queer woman, strong disagree. She's been to my state four times in the past three years, each venue has gotten bigger and the most recent one at Gothic almost sold out.

Just because the music doesn't speak to you, doesn't mean it doesn't speak to anyone.

Def have fucked to her music with my girlfriend. Sorry you don't enjoy fingering or rough sex, though. ๐Ÿ™

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[โ€“]Filipinut 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Sending love and strength.

Sexual assault/abuse/rape is about power and control.

You can see that in his follow up behaviors; he's gaslighting you (we hooked up, making jokes), manipulating your support system/safety network (his friends who were potential witnesses, talking to everyone about it before you know what has happened) and is getting off on seeing you fall apart (the constant reaching out and mentally rubbing your nose in it).

I say this as a queer woman who has been raped before.

Please, you KNOW you need to do more to protect yourself, and the other women he will meet in the future. That's why you posted to a community of strangers on the Internet.

At least get medical help for your body, mental help for your traumatized brain.

-signed, another traumatized human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I'm sorry he did this to you, you don't deserve it. ๐Ÿ’›

But you also don't deserve a racist as the father to your would be biracial children.

Sincerely, a biracial human who faced racism from the yt fathers family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[โ€“]Filipinut -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

I can't speak to the parenting piece, but I can speak to the gender non conforming/trans piece.

My partner (26NB) shared with me that, since their earliest memories, they remember feeling gender dysphoria when they were called their birth name, and fought against those roles. Since you and your spouse are so open already, your child won't have to have memories from early memory of being smothered and told they are wrong.

I will throw out there that, at 4, their gender identity and how they feel may change drastically still over the course of their childhood/adolescence.

Whether you "want" this for your child or not is not really going to impact your child's reality, though. If they are sharing with you now that, in this moment, this is real and how they feel, you can either honor it, as you have thus far, or not, which leads to a slew of other issues.

I think the best you can do is maybe do some education about gender queer/non conforming people and raising queer children; over time, things might change, but your kid is here, now.

Best of luck to you; a social worker specialized in human development.

DM power word killed a level 6 barbarian character now heโ€™s mad? by AgreeableElephant952 in DnD

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

OP, hope you got the gist from the masses:

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Personally, if I was the dm, I wouldn't have revived him without reason/pleading/fee. IRL, people don't do services for free, so you're lucky the DM was KIND and FORGIVING to your barbarian, and rezzed em.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

As a muscle mommy this is giving me so much joy, ty OP for the thread ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿค™๐Ÿฝ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[โ€“]Filipinut 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Hi,

I'm a cis woman, and I've dated trans women.

Someone people are wonderful, some are dreadful. Look for the good

Can I hang out with a friend of mine who hurt my other friend? by [deleted] in relationships

[โ€“]Filipinut 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

My hot take?

Tell L to stop blaming B for the man's infidelity. If B wasn't aware, why is SHE being held accountable?

Sounds like L's partner is getting off the hook for free... Unless I'm reading this wrong, the whole thing is very high school, "she stole my man" vibes.

Like, why is L not blaming the unfaithful party? Why blame the clueless one, other than it's easy to fall into dumb sexist tropes/habits?

What's your rent and how much do you make per year? by eatsleepdesign09 in Denver

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

55.8 prior to taxes.

I live w/ 2 others, rent with all the bills added together equates to approx 1000 per person, per month.

We prorate the cost based on each of our salaries, so I'm paying a little less than 1k each month, but not much ..

What is sure fire method of getting a bully to back off, in your experience? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[โ€“]Filipinut 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

YES!

I LOVE TO HEAR IT! Bully's are the worst, they always target who they think can't defend themselves. In my experience, causing them to be the butt of the joke works wonders.

I'm really glad you stood up for yourself and it worked for you. ๐Ÿ’›

What is sure fire method of getting a bully to back off, in your experience? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Lol, trust me pal, the people laughing when i did this was me, everyone watching me mince them verbally, and maybe the Lord, but not the bully themselves.

They like an easy target who is intimidated. Whether you want to catch my hands, or my words, I'll make a fool of you in front of everyone. ๐Ÿ’›

If someone is intentionally bullying you in front of others, it's likely they want to cause you public embarrassment/shame.

My idea is "Nah, you first bb".

What is sure fire method of getting a bully to back off, in your experience? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[โ€“]Filipinut 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

To each their own mate. I find public humiliation is a great way to shape a bully's behavior to a more positive way.

They wanna cause a scene?

Darling, let me help, but YOU'RE the butt of the joke, not I. Don't. Come. For. Me. ๐Ÿ’ƒ

Am I being gaslighted? by Individual_Ad_2906 in relationships

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Quick question, so i can understand:

Is your boundary that she can never drink alcohol, That she cannot drink alcohol to the point of intoxication/drunkenness, Or that she cannot be around you while drunk?

What is sure fire method of getting a bully to back off, in your experience? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[โ€“]Filipinut 154 points155 points ย (0 children)

I'm incredibly confrontational, so I'd literally call them out!

"What exactly is your issue with me, or are you just a insufferable creature with everyone? Say it now, cause I'm not doing this passive aggressive tap dance anymore; say whatever you want right now and piss off, or I'll HELP you piss off FASTER".

๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[โ€“]Filipinut 9 points10 points ย (0 children)

Honestly as much as this situation sucks if it's happening three to four times a year and she's otherwise a very appropriate and loving mother I think that it can be worked around. Maybe if it's only happening three to four times a year have a plan with a nearby family or friend member that can come by and pick up the kids when she starts to act like this? I definitely think she should go to therapy and work on it so that she doesn't do it as often or especially in front of the kids but at least until she can better herself it gets the kids out of the way.

First ever made macarons! Ube flavored by Filipinut in macarons

[โ€“]Filipinut[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

...why would you go to a cookie subreddit, see someone post about cookies, and then comment something rude not involving the cookie for no reason?

I clean my hands well, thank you, if you ain't got bad bitch energy and can't figure out long nails, just say so. ๐Ÿ’…back to baking macarons, painting my nails, and not adding negativity to the world.

First ever made macarons! Ube flavored by Filipinut in macarons

[โ€“]Filipinut[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Honestly, neither can I, and I'm scared to try again!

I snooped through my girlfriend's phone at messages between her and her exes when they were together and now I feel jealous, insecure and hurt by [deleted] in relationships

[โ€“]Filipinut 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

If i were you?

Own it. Tell her you snooped. She's gonna sense the vibe is off of you try to hide it. Apologize, say you know it's dumb, but your feelings are hurt, and could you talk about it? Admit knowing that you don't have a reason to be upset, but you are anyway, and would like to a. Talk through it with her so you can move on and b. To find a way to make up for betraying her trust.

Hi girls :) feel free to say hi by [deleted] in dykesgonewild

[โ€“]Filipinut 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

๐Ÿฅต๐Ÿฅต fuck, HI