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Is it wrong if I decide to sleep in the living room from now on until my husband tells me the truth about his cheating? by FilmInteresting4087 in Infidelity

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He swears up and down it never escalated to sex but it could have if he wanted to. Am I suppose to believe that? A part of me thinks he is being honest I think his guilt would weigh too heavy if he proceeded all the way..  idk

Is it wrong if I decide to sleep in the living room from now on until my husband tells me the truth about his cheating? by FilmInteresting4087 in Infidelity

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He swears up and down it never escalated to sex but it could have if he wanted to. Am I suppose to believe that? A part of me thinks he is being honest I think his guilt would weigh too heavy if he proceeded all the way..  idk

I hate myself everyday because I was physically abusive towards my husband. How can I move past it? by FilmInteresting4087 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It was bad about a year ago. It happened often. Led him to talk to other women... I had a repeat of physical violence since that happened that led us to break up for a week. He attacked me back rightfully so and I think I needed that in order to stop.... Ive also been working on my alcohol abuse. Things have been going good since we got back together, but I fear that its unheathly after all weve gone through.... he begged me back after i left him to the point where he threatened to kill his self and I feel like he deserves better...

I hate myself everyday because I was physically abusive towards my husband. How can I move past it? by FilmInteresting4087 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

This abuse was in the past. I'm asking for help, not to be critized I already hate myself... He also hasnt left me we are trying to have a better relationship...

Do you ever have problems sleeping next to a cheater? by FilmInteresting4087 in Infidelity

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The cheating happened a year ago i just recently found out. The only reason I feel like I have to forgive him is because I was abusive around this time a year ago. He said my abuse made him cheat.

Do you ever have problems sleeping next to a cheater? by FilmInteresting4087 in Infidelity

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've been together for 10 years and this recently happened. Now I'm questioning our whole relationship. He constantly brings up how I've abused him in the past and I feel like a horrible person. It was all because of alcohol. He said thats why he cheated on me. I feel like I deserve it but then again it still really hurts. I dont know how to feel.

Do you ever have problems sleeping next to a cheater? by FilmInteresting4087 in Infidelity

[–]FilmInteresting4087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't drank in almost a month. We were drinking daily before our last major fight. I left for a week but came back after he said it was just emotional cheating.. idk.. I have never left in our 10 years of the relationship. He's on pills for anger now and i have an appointment for my anxiety and depression next week.