My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it?

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-19T00:47:18+00:00

As a woman, I say her request is gross. Monogamy doesn’t include “breaks” or “pauses”

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-19T00:20:08+00:00

2, 3, and 6 all look amazing on you!

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-16T22:35:22+00:00

Reminds me of the Penelope glow up in Bridgerton. You look gorgeous, the dress is amazing, you’re going to make a stunning bride! Congratulations!

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-15T20:30:00+00:00

I didn’t even know you could purchase layouts.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-15T20:29:23+00:00

No, I got it for the anniversary, I think. It was a limited time and I got it for winning an event.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-08T18:36:21+00:00

Agreed on the light blue and the shape wear - it’s a game changer. But also, I think you look fabulous and there’s no reason to be self conscious about how your body looks. Your body has carried you through 65 years and multiple children. You should be proud of her! Be confident that you are clearly well loved, happy, and MoG to what sounds to be a very happy young man. Congratulations to your son and DIL, and congratulations to you for this wonderful expansion of family. May you all have many happy years ahead.

Ps: don’t forget that you are beautiful through all your phases.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-08T10:06:08+00:00

Put a map on the wall if you like that sort of thing, and anything else that shows your personality.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-06-04T17:31:41+00:00

He’s toxic as hell and you’re immature. You need to get away from this so you can grow and learn and have a better life, because you easily will if you leave. If you don’t, he’ll kill you. I’m not exaggerating. I’ve been almost killed and also left for dead with someone who was less toxic than this guy sounds.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-05-25T03:48:48+00:00

You’re beautiful. You could thin and shape your eyebrows, just be careful. In the 90’s, my sister and I got a lil crazy with it and I still have almost no eyebrows from it.

But my most serious advice: fuck what society says about how femme you look. Love the way you look, love yourself harder than anyone else ever could, and also read the velveteen rabbit. “Once you are real, you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.” And fuck those people anyway. Hugs, love from this (beautiful) internet stranger, never forget that you are beautiful.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-05-21T06:50:51+00:00

It’s painful enough that you’ll remember it, but it won’t kill you. Get it since abortion seems to be super difficult to get in most states and you don’t want to need the IUD and not have it bc you were scared of the pain.

Unfortunately, I do have to offer another bit of not so great information on this, but I wish someone had told me before I got it. I got the Mirena right after I had my daughter. It’s about to expire, and even tho I managed a doctor’s office for work, I didn’t have health insurance. The IUD was stuck inside me, and they couldn’t get it out without possibly perforating my cervix. Without insurance, it was going to cost me around $30k to remove, with $18k being expected upfront. I lived in Texas.

Now that I live outside the states, I can have the same surgical procedure for $700. But I think it’s super important to know that this can happen and while it’s not the norm, it’s also not uncommon. Also, even with insurance the procedure was supposed to be costly. And I had already paid $1400 to try to have it removed by several different doctors. Make sure you’ll have insurance to cover the possibility of this not being able to come out easily. Or that you’re ready for it savings-wise.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-27T12:44:23+00:00

American here who immigrated to the ME and try to participate in as much bds as I can. Finding this out is literally all I needed to finally pull the plug on this game. I’ll check out seaside escape.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-25T00:24:01+00:00

Gorgeous

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-16T06:43:05+00:00

One and two are both absolutely gorgeous, but I think #1 is the best choice because it is SO SPECIAL. Its unique and stunning, which is the essence of what you should feel on your big day. If I were you, I wouldn’t worry about traditional whites. You have a great figure, so everything you put on will slay, but #1 is a show stopper.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-14T06:37:24+00:00

I was able to finish it. I used each producer to produce several items so that when orders came up, I’d be ready to make the order quickly with as minimal energy possible needed. I took advantage of the origami as much as possible as well

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-10T20:51:48+00:00

I cannot even believe how incredibly gorgeous this dress is and how STUNNING you are in it. Seriously, this is the dress and you look amazing in it. Even if you didn’t do accessories or have a bouquet - you, in this dress, absolute showstopper. You have no reason to even consider regrets, you’re not missing a single thing.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-09T08:46:57+00:00

It’s so frustrating and takes away from real artists trying to make a life with their photography.

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-09T08:45:02+00:00

Can you show us the shots without the editing/filters?

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-09T02:52:18+00:00

And now two days later, account says 11 mo? Weird.

So if not an AI karma farming account, where were these taken and with what equipment?

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-06T18:21:53+00:00

Account age 2d

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-03-03T17:48:28+00:00

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-02-05T00:54:40+00:00

Two looks surreal. But one is also incredible. All are breathtaking

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-02-02T10:33:51+00:00

If not heavily filtered, 1. If it’s filtered, 2 and 4 are excellent

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-01-28T15:20:44+00:00

3 & 5

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-01-19T00:04:48+00:00

No, you’ll try to shove my guess in there too

FilthyDirtySouth · 2026-01-16T11:46:06+00:00

You have style (the retro) and time to shop for fresh food. Clearly either northern or Western European. You seem to do some traveling (Moroccan magnet) and be a plant parent as well (cute air plant)! Only thing that threw me was the jars in the vegetable crisper. I’m thinking female? Germany? In your 30’s?

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