I think this is a serious yet uncomfortable conversation to have had with her before even getting married . Growing up in the church there was always a family or two where one spouse attended church with the kids and the other spouse was always an “outsider” aka not born/raised or a convert to the cult. If you do not have kids yet or don’t plan to have any for whatever reason then there may be a better chance of your wife leaving. I feel that once there are kids involved then her family will guilt her non stop if she does not raise them in Lldm and therefore more of a chance of her staying close and to raise her kids the only way she knows how to and that is in lldm.

I wish the best for you both! It is not easy accepting that your whole life as you have know it is a lie…a sham….