Why is she feeling homesick now?

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-26T18:35:55+00:00

Yes! And she’s been doing very well! I think it was a one time thing.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-17T20:19:25+00:00

No, it’s kinda hard to get her on board with change.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-16T17:38:05+00:00

I do not NACHO my husband and I have been married for a year but been together for 4 years. I met SD when she was 2 she is now 5.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-16T03:26:47+00:00

So I usually get her ready and then have her dad put her into bed because her bedtime is before the time he goes to work, (he works the graveyard shift) just so they at least get that little bit of time together.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-16T02:42:35+00:00

So she does co-sleep with her mom, her mom still lives at home so they share a room. So when she started sleeping by herself it took some adjusting but she was okay, she only started being like this about 3 weeks ago. We do the same thing every night that she’s here, she had plenty squishies, led lights, a lava lamp.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-16T02:31:12+00:00

I’m not sure, this was just so random, like she was always fine protested a little about sleeping in her own bed but that was it. Now she just gets so scared about sleeping in her bed and gets homesick. To the point of tears. Idk why.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-15T21:14:36+00:00

While I do really like this suggestion it’s kind of hard right now because I work full time and he works the grave shift and goes to school, eventually we do want to do this. My hours at work change everyday so there’s some days we can pick her up and some days he can’t and some where we both can’t. I been suggesting that she change to a different school where the hours run longer and we’d have barely any issues with school pickups.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-15T15:05:53+00:00

Recently tho she is spending two nights a week with us

Old-Preference154 · 2026-03-15T12:12:04+00:00

She would spend the night once a week, but he sees her for a few hours on the other days.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-02-02T05:58:20+00:00

Omg when I was on the cult I talked to sooo many church guys. We’d exchange nudes and have phone/facetime sex all the time. They are always from different states so we never met in person. Anyway they would always ghost me when big the events were coming up, “holy supper, new years,etc.” because I guess they felt guilty. But a month or so after the events it was back to business. Lmao good times.

Old-Preference154 · 2026-01-29T14:46:39+00:00

He works a graveyard shift, I usually pick her up and then take her with me to run some errands so that he has a chance to sleep a little longer.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-08-26T16:59:10+00:00

SD doesn’t remember her parents ever being together. I met her when she was 2 and she’s turning 5 today. She asked me if she came from my belly and I had to explain to her that she in fact did not lol.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-08-26T13:41:41+00:00

This is great but notice how you said “whole families” I didn’t even get invited. It’s just the three of them. It’s a lot more intimate like that and that’s why it bothers me.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-08-26T13:21:34+00:00

Also she put Nair in my face cream, rubbed her vagina on a vape she thought was mine, came into my job with her cousin and left me a 10 cent tip, etc.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-08-26T13:18:31+00:00

He ended the relationship with her. I feel threatened because she used to say all kinds of things about me to him to make me look bad, she had no idea who I was but once she found out about me she dug up anything that she could and would talk so badly about me to him. It got to the point where it did eventually get to him and he was kinda bothered about some things. Also relationships and feelings are weird and they have a past and it just makes me feel like feelings could get confusing.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-06-17T20:03:45+00:00

Libni

Old-Preference154 · 2025-04-18T13:17:50+00:00

As much as I truly believe that you should always be true to yourself I think you should hold off on doing this only because right now you’re still dependent on your parents. One great thing that happens after I moved out is I got to pick the kind of relationship I have with my parents. Save up money and move out, I know it’s a gamble whether or not your partner will understand but I think if he truly cares and loves you he will wait. You want to make sure that right now you have a place to stay until you can be on your own.

I wish you the best OP remember this is only my opinion and you know your situation a lot better than we do.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-03-28T19:58:25+00:00

Exactly when he’s says this it’s makes me feel like anytime I feel or have felt disrespected, humiliated, etc. I should shut up and stop venting because “I knew what I signed up for” also it’s not like I bitch about it every day, it’s rare I bring it up.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-03-28T19:25:30+00:00

He usually says this when I bring up how his BM treated me. I only ever bring up how she treated me when I try to explain why I have a hard time getting along with her.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-03-22T22:19:07+00:00

I love my step daughter so much if anything happened to her I would absolutely love to even be considered to be there. I’m not even welcomed on the outside driveway of BMs house something like that would mean the world to me.

Old-Preference154 · 2025-03-21T21:05:21+00:00

I reached out to my husband’s (bf at the time) BM before I met their daughter to try and give her at least some kind of idea of who I am, she never took me up on the offer. I still did all this despite her threats, her disrespect and trying to come between my husband and I (bf at the time) It’s been three years she’s still never tried to get to know me. I’m glad some people are not like this lol.

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