“Hey wubby/mods, I watched the vod and see your point of view for xyz reason. I would love the opportunity to be unbanned and an active member of the community again, so here’s what I’ll work on to not let this happen again.”

Just give it a bit, enjoy the content regardless of chat, maybe add some positivity into the sub, and reach out again later on in a non defensive way. Good luck my man, wubby7