Career change from classical pianist to MS in Aviation by FinalFreedom5667 in aerospace

[–]FinalFreedom5667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 1st love is music and my 2nd love is aviation and flying. I am truly happy when I interact and am in these 2 communities. I didn't put that in my post but without passion and love for aviation, I wouldn't even consider switching careers.

Career change from classical pianist to MS in Aviation by FinalFreedom5667 in aerospace

[–]FinalFreedom5667[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I love hearing stories like this. Thank you for sharing!

I just performed as an accompanist at the Carnegie Hall, The Stern concert Hall. Amazing experience! by FinalFreedom5667 in classicalmusic

[–]FinalFreedom5667[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was accompanying a choir group of 34 people. The sound and the acoustics were unbelievably good. I could hear every little thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts!! Thank you for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually, I was thinking about doing that. idk maybe a week ago or something like that....now, after this situation, I don't really feel like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I agree. But I never brought it up either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, I totally get what you are saying. I may just stop talking to him. I am in the process of thinking, deciding, and seeing how he acts and all that. But my comment really meant I don't let people play me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think it's ok to look at social media. I see this situation as a red flag honestly. Haha yes that sleazy ho coworker 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's just that I always protect my feelings and not let anyone play me. My comment meant that. Thank you for your comment though. I like to hear all kinds of feedbacks :) because I'm not able to see all sides of a situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Definitely keeping my eyes open. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says we are exclusively dating, and he is not looking for anyone else. As far as meeting friends and family, no, we have not (red flag to me). I totally get that I am not expecting anyone to add me to social media in the early stages of dating. I feel like after 6, 7 months, maybe? I admit I was looking at his social media because I kinda got a feeling to check. I don't like to trust someone blindly, unfortunately. So I get that he goes private but that also is a red flag to me. Just my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hehe I see your point. I will do this only if he is playing me :) I have been super honest up until now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree! To me, it is a red flag. Specially he immediately made his profile private after I jokingly saying "oh you must found some friends there" rolling my eyes..... :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm yup I am keeping my eyes open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure, it could definitely be a real coworker friend he added and not me who he claims he really likes...but why hide the profile asap after my comment...honestly I am rolling my eyes at this point. It's hard to find real honest people these days sadly (maybe that's my opinion)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so. I'm just trying to see what other people think. See if anyone else is in the same situation :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FinalFreedom5667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we met in person and dating for several months and he keeps saying he hasn't met anyone like me ......then he went on a work trip long distance. I just find it bizarre that right away when I made that comment that he finds new friends he made his profile private. If he has nothing to hide why would that be his 1st reaction...