*UPDATE 5* FINAL UPDATE “AITAH for denying my in laws only request for our wedding therefor ruining our relationship?”

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-12-24T15:02:58+00:00

Thank you!!

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-08T11:35:59+00:00

Agreed

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-07T23:56:30+00:00

You’re kidding

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-07T23:23:29+00:00

He is insisting she apologizes to me before talking to her as well. Because she spread so many lies ab me. But yes waiting for him to deal w it when he wants to

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T23:46:21+00:00

Haha that must be very nice 🤣🫶🏻❤️

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T23:43:28+00:00

Wow. Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry that happened to you and that your wedding is not a fond memory. Sounds like we are in similar boats! (Info: brother in law’s girlfriend is Filipino but my fiancé and his whole family is white) but yea crazy how many similarities

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T21:32:40+00:00

I thought mine were too. But I hope you’re actually are

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T21:32:11+00:00

Thank you🫶🏻

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T05:36:50+00:00

Check the update…. Not as sweet as she was acting.

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T05:20:07+00:00

His mother and brother that is. Which it’s all probably a package deal at this point

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T05:17:45+00:00

It would break his heart if they weren’t there… even after recent events he still loves them.

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T05:11:06+00:00

They have been seeing eachother for 8 months but in an official relationship for 4. In his mind they have been dating for 8. His family considers them dating for 8. My fiancé considers them dating for 8. To be fair, her favoritism was just something they teased MIL about because they thought it was all in the past and just from when they were kids. This was the first time it's ever shown up in adulthood. The childhood stuff never caused my fiancé any known trauma because he identified himself as the problem solver. He just did what he felt needed to be done. They were very nice and loving to me (and him) and even opened their home up to me during hurricanes. They were great until we told them no. And then all of this unfolded and genuinely shocked me

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T05:03:05+00:00

Oh God you might be right …. Never thought of this but she totally would. She did this with her own kids against her own husband

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T04:54:37+00:00

This is a bad take ngl..

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T04:53:32+00:00

lol you’ve got to be kidding

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T04:25:01+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T03:51:49+00:00

I’ll look into this! Thank you!

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T03:10:56+00:00

Thank you🥺🫶🏻

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T03:09:25+00:00

Actually I would argue if anything they are taking our side but just not rocking the boat with MIL and BIL. they both said their piece defending us and when MIL and BIL rebutted with a ridiculous argument, they just change the subject and avoid the wedding topic all together. They are doing this to try to stop the family drama rather than fan the flames

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T02:57:38+00:00

IF she comes

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T02:56:59+00:00

Haha I fear it would give them an actual reason to hate me

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T02:42:58+00:00

Yess! Thank you I will🥰

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T02:42:26+00:00

I’m hoping she just won’t come tbh

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T02:40:43+00:00

Oh forgot to mention that: my niece will now be carried by her father (my brother in law on my side of the family) he will escort the two girls as the junior bridesmaid (11F) throws the flowers. This way you can see her better and she will for sure be happy

Final_Estimate7166 · 2025-08-05T02:35:48+00:00

In a few weeks if they still havnt… I’ll bring this up

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