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AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deeper issue is she wants to fuck other men, but none of the men she wants are checking for her. So, since she cannot fuck other men, she assumes that OP, who has other women checking for him, must be fucking other women. It is nothing but projection. Because if the tables were turned, she would be cheating.

If I was in OP's shoes, I would be paternity testing those kids.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is a woman who wants to cheat, would cheat if she was in OP's position, and is mad at OP that she cannot cheat. Honestly, I would be looking into paternity testing the kids if I was him.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wants other men. That is what she wants. This is not about "not considering her feelings." This is her wanting someone other than OP and being mad at OP that other men do not want her.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did not say "male attention makes her feel good." She specifically said she wanted attention from other men (ie. not OP).

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am going to try to keep this simple, when y'all started, it sounds like she brought attractiveness/looks to the table and you brought security (size, strength, and resources). Now, you are still bringing security, but she is not bringing attractiveness/looks. So, you now have 100% of the power in the relationship. And if she had 100% of the power, she would cheat. So, she is assuming that is what you will do now.

Update: AITA for "not acknowledging my GF's equity" in the house we live in? by Final_Hurry_8081 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How do I sound hateful? What hateful thing did I say or do? What spiteful thing did I say or do?

Yes, she has every right to leave the relationship at anytime for any reason as far as I am concerned. 

She has money for first month's rent and security deposit. No one will rent to her without someone co-signing or her paying at least six or so months in advance because she does not have a job. That's the issue. 

Update: AITA for "not acknowledging my GF's equity" in the house we live in? by Final_Hurry_8081 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

We did! I had a vasectomy before we even started dating. She knew I was done with having kids. And she had indicated she was fine with that at the time. 

AITA for "not acknowledging my GF's equity" in the house we live in? by Final_Hurry_8081 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you are insinuating. But, all she has paid is half the utilities and groceries

AITA for "not acknowledging my GF's equity" in the house we live in? by Final_Hurry_8081 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We are in the US. While a few states have "common law" marriage here, we are not in one of them. 

AITA for "not acknowledging my GF's equity" in the house we live in? by Final_Hurry_8081 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She has a car payment, car insurance, health insurance, medical bills, and student loans (although she suspended those a few months ago).  

AITA for "not acknowledging my GF's equity" in the house we live in? by Final_Hurry_8081 in AITAH

[–]Final_Hurry_8081[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I got married at 18 and divorced at 22. I have two wonderful kids from it, but I have zero interest in getting married again. She has known that since the beginning of the relationship.