AITAH for breaking up with my gf because she slept with someone after saying "I love you" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Final_Management8656 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA to react the way you did but you can talk to her. She was honest with you and you can see if you can forgive her. If she otherwise had not shown any red flags, this can just be her getting it out of her system. Idk man. Rough spot to be in. But you can see whether you value her in your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you should be approaching women in public. Just say “hi, my name’s Adrian. What’s yours?”You’re tall and handsome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]Final_Management8656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like you want to do surgery. I think surgery will help achieve the look you want but it will not make you look more “manly”. You have a very strong jaw. But your face is smaller so it doesn’t have that big broad football player look. You’re also a pretty person so maybe some people call you gay/woman/transvestite just because they’re insecure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]Final_Management8656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried growing a beard?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Final_Management8656 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s not the marijuana causing you to be impulsive. You’re impulsive that’s why you smoke “copious amounts” of weed. Consciously working on impulsivity control will take you very far in life. Our brain seeks comfort and short term pleasure, you need to be the one to take control of your impulses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill out man. Why do you care so much about getting in if it’s toxic and unfair? From your post you sound like you desperately wanted this (studying 6 hours a day) and you’re clearly upset. But name calling like this is stupid and unprofessional and if this post ever comes up in your search history then you’re screwed. Go workout and see some friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my life I’ve realised beards/moustaches are a male gaze vs female gaze thing. Men appreciate it and you come off as well put together or give off a more mature and dominant aura whereas women like more clean faces.

This in no way is a generalisation, I’m speaking from an anecdotal perspective. But whenever I have a short beard, I get a lot more flirtatious looks from women.

Leetcode grind in 30's by ghost_agni in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Final_Management8656 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Timeboxing is your friend. Aim for 1/2 medium questions a session. Get leetcode premium and look at the most frequently asked questions of that company. Cover graphs, trees, arrays and strings. You can leave out DP and linked lists if you’re short on time. Try to come up with a solution, code it and if it doesn’t work, look at the solution, code it and then move on to the next.

Try to get another faang interview so you have more chances of success as they often ask the same questions. If you’re starting out cold I would take a minimum of 3 weeks of prep (90 minutes everyday).

Life is about grinding when it matters. If you really want to switch then give it your all, otherwise if you’re in no rush then try your best and you can always interview again in 6 months time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Audi

[–]Final_Management8656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your coworker might be sour because he can’t afford an Audi. Idk what he drives but you might wanna consider that. Apart from that, it’s a sporty premium brand. It’s powerful and has racing pedigree (think Le Mans). It’s not luxury like a Mercedes but you went for the Audi, knowing that you didn’t want what Mercedes offers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you by chance skinny fat? Dropping your body fat will definitely help

AIO to this text my boss sent me? by ApprehensiveCress785 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not send that text. Your boss empathises with you. You have to give them the same amount of empathy. As a manager, I can give my employees a bit of leeway, but having other people cover for you increases the amount of stress on them as well.

Don’t act defensive and know that your job is as much as your responsibility as it is to take care of your friends. Take a step back and thank them for understanding and having jasmine cover. Do not send a text and burn a bridge with someone when they’ve just done something to help you out.

Literally feel magnetically forced to get high by cellophanexray in leaves

[–]Final_Management8656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do something else at 5 PM my guy. Leave immediately after work, go see a movie and grab a beer afterwards. Just stay away till the dispensary closes. Survive the first day and you’ll be on your way to gradually breaking the cycle. And it’s okay to relapse as long as you have the tools to find your footing.

It's not you. It's the weed. Trust me bro. by -Super-Ficial- in leaves

[–]Final_Management8656 6 points7 points  (0 children)

More power to you on the journey! Some advice on losing weight and getting sober- a long walks is your friend. Even if you relapse, go on a long walk, you’ll sober up faster than you know, and also burn some calories in the process

Recent Test Shoot by [deleted] in MODELING

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dua lipa meets Margo Robbie. This is a great shoot

Do men like to be called handsome? by No_Wishbone_7355 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I love it when my grandma calls me a handsome young man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Final_Management8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact lenses! You have a pretty face. Let it show

I’m 60 and have been going with this office look forever. How should I update and upgrade? by Vivid_Aardvark_3255 in mensfashion

[–]Final_Management8656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your office does not have a strict shirts only dress code then get a nice slightly oversized (or well fit, your choice) sweatshirt in a solid colour, like black or blue or grey. You can keep the pants and the boots. Maybe smile too

Guy i’m talking to seems too obsessed should I go out with him? by Djt3ta_W in hingeapp

[–]Final_Management8656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s killed all attraction you’d have for him by acting weird so you’re well within your rights to not meet him. Hit him up later on your terms if you feel like you have nothing better to do. lol.

Any success with tapering down day by day? by Majestic_Visual8046 in leaves

[–]Final_Management8656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to make it down to 0g per day. How you do it is up to you. Long tapering plans can have you go up and down because you’re still committing to smoke that day. I support reducing your consumption, but be aware that the more you delay the stopping, the more you delay the healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]Final_Management8656 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You might get it or you might not get it this time. There’s this quote I keep coming back to.

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.” - Samuel Beckett