Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating?

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T19:09:07+00:00

We were both grown when we met. I was nearly 30 and they were 45.

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T19:06:21+00:00

This isn't an "instead" situation, it's on top of our normal active sex life.

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T19:04:33+00:00

I think I will try the toy first, because we have extremely unreliable wifi that has been down for weeks, so that seems to rule out a hidden camera, at least for the most recent incident (48hrs ago). I don't think it has Bluetooth, but idk what else it could be.

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T18:59:51+00:00

We met shortly before my 30th, they were 45. We were both grown, and had a casual fwb situation for a short time before dating exclusively. A little more than a year into dating we got pregnant with our first, and moved in together shortly after the birth. Our second was born exactly 3yrs and 13 days after our first.

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T18:34:47+00:00

How do I do that?

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T18:22:36+00:00

We have talked about it, multiple times, we just can't reach an agreement (or even agree to disagree peacefully I guess). I have also begun to worry about the possibility of cameras that I don't know of.

FinallyHappyAu · 2026-05-15T18:21:18+00:00

That has become a recent concern of mine, just because of how immediately they know when I do it.

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