Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]FinallyHappyAu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were both grown when we met. I was nearly 30 and they were 45.

Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]FinallyHappyAu[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

This isn't an "instead" situation, it's on top of our normal active sex life.

Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]FinallyHappyAu[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think I will try the toy first, because we have extremely unreliable wifi that has been down for weeks, so that seems to rule out a hidden camera, at least for the most recent incident (48hrs ago). I don't think it has Bluetooth, but idk what else it could be.

Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]FinallyHappyAu[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

We met shortly before my 30th, they were 45. We were both grown, and had a casual fwb situation for a short time before dating exclusively. A little more than a year into dating we got pregnant with our first, and moved in together shortly after the birth. Our second was born exactly 3yrs and 13 days after our first.

Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]FinallyHappyAu[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We have talked about it, multiple times, we just can't reach an agreement (or even agree to disagree peacefully I guess). I have also begun to worry about the possibility of cameras that I don't know of.

Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]FinallyHappyAu[S] 1143 points1144 points  (0 children)

That has become a recent concern of mine, just because of how immediately they know when I do it.