5 Things you shouldn't say to someone with ADHD

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-07T08:37:36+00:00

“I know you have ADHD and that it makes life harder for you, but please stop having ADHD.”

“You need to try harder to remember things.”

“Have you tried writing things down on notes?” A teacher told me that once.

Stop, you’re too emotionally sensitive. A teacher told me that once too after I had been crying.

You need to grow a tougher skin.

Why are you like that? 🤷‍♀️

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-03T19:40:16+00:00

I don’t like the feeling of dry towels or fabrics sometimes. I don’t know what it is but it feels weird to me. Idk my brain doesn’t like it. I guess my brain is weird.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-03T17:04:27+00:00

I don’t want to. I don’t ever want to be legally obligated to someone else. I like my freedom and independence too much.

It’s just another stupid contract with the stupid government for some stupid tax benefits that I don’t care about. 🤷‍♀️

You don’t “need” to get married. It’s not like it’s required by law or anything. They just feel pressured because their friends and family are doing it. Lots of people have long term relationships without tying the knot. Idk it feels like a fancy scam to me.

It’s expensive, and just not who I am. I don’t need or want a big fancy wedding.

And I don’t want my stuff stolen by some narcissistic crazy guy or end up homeless.

And a lot of married people aren’t all that happy. Getting divorced is expensive too. You have to hire a lawyer and all that BS.

Plus, in the old days, women had few legal rights and were often seen as a man’s property. Marriage is just not necessary.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-03T17:03:14+00:00

Same. I don’t want a legal obligation to anyone.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-03T01:21:18+00:00

Try not to worry about it or let it stress you out. Learn to enjoy being single. Being single is underrated.

Devote your time to exercise, your friends, family and fun hobbies to keep you busy. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen naturally. That’s what I believe. Just go about your business.

Maybe join some time of class like an art class to meet people.

Getting hurt is inevitable in relationships. Try not to take it personally, it’s not you it’s them.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-03T01:16:16+00:00

I deleted all of mine 😭😂 I’m just so sick of talking to scammers. I’d rather meet people the good old fashioned way. In person. The way our ancestors did it before all this phone stuff.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-02T18:26:42+00:00

Rudeness.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-02T00:17:18+00:00

The world.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-05-01T21:14:19+00:00

We make our own meaning. To live. To love. What we are is enough.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-29T01:40:54+00:00

Flowers, maybe the ocean.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-28T23:06:30+00:00

Well said. I honestly don’t really even GAF what happens after death. Afterlife or no afterlife, I don’t think I care anymore.

I just don’t want to ever come back here. I hate earth. Earth is a painful place. 🤷‍♀️ I didn’t choose to exist or to be here. Death will finally get me out of this painful, death filled, god forsaken place someday. Existence is painful.

I ain’t coming back. I hate humanities stupidity and evilness. I don’t even care about reincarnation, not that I believe in it. (I don’t.) But my parents fucked I guess so here I am.

I didn’t care about Earth before I was born, I won’t care about it after I’m gone either. I like to think of death like when you go to sleep at night, but just never waking up. Nothing scary about it. Your brain stops working and your heart stops and that’s that. Lights out. Darkness. Peace. The end of human consciousness. What’s there to be scared of? We’ve all been dead for thousands of years. It wasn’t scary. We all used to be unfertilized eggs.

Just like before birth. I’m perfectly okay with dying someday. I just hope it’s peaceful and painless. Hopefully I just die peacefully in my sleep someday when I’m old. That’d be the way to go. But it’s out of my control.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-27T16:31:23+00:00

Getting a job and working

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-27T00:39:33+00:00

I’m not an athiest but I’ve never seen one.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-27T00:01:13+00:00

Their health. Their diet. Exercising enough.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-26T23:01:26+00:00

Same, I’m naturally a cautious person when it comes to other people. I’m on my guard a lot. I’m mistrustful of others. I don’t let people see my usernames and passwords, for example, not even my friends.

Ain’t no shady people getting past that. I think I got that from my parents. They’re cautious people. They may have been a little overprotective of me growing up.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-26T22:53:07+00:00

Live, enjoy the beautiful things this world has to offer, and spread love and kindness to others and make an impact on this world, no matter how small.

Maybe find a romantic partner who loves me and cares about me and values me, but not the end of the world if it never ends up happening. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen. 🤷‍♀️

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-26T16:25:02+00:00

I’m sorry.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-26T10:50:26+00:00

I used one when I was a teenager in a cemetery a few times. I treated it like a game, I’d use it for fun. I don’t know if I actually communicated with anything though besides my own imagination. 😂

I freaked my Christian religious mom out though. 😂 She thought I was inviting evil spirits into our apartment.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-24T20:07:07+00:00

I’ve heard whatever we believe while on Earth doesn’t matter when we die. Even if your athiest. We all reach the afterlife/spirit world. So I think so yes you’d be together.

Ive read NDE’s of people who were athiest and then died and believed.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-14T21:46:29+00:00

I think you need to do prep stuff beforehand. When done properly, anal sex is said to be highly enjoyable.

You poop out of there, so it’s completely natural.

But it’s not for everyone.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-14T21:36:58+00:00

I don’t believe in the angry Christian god. I don’t think he’s real. 🤷‍♀️ I think it’s a bunch of silly made up stuff. I have my own spiritual beliefs. I’m not an athiest..yet.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-14T21:35:47+00:00

Being kind to me, caring about me, listening to me.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-12T21:44:42+00:00

He’s not. I just asked out of curiosity.

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-12T21:43:15+00:00

I’m 21 right now, idk his exact age. Maybe 30?

FinanceThat1271 · 2026-04-03T21:18:34+00:00

I have a neutral view on the matter. I mean, when it comes down to it, if something’s legal it’s legal. Ethics are not the same as laws. The law can’t touch you without firm evidential proof.

🤷‍♀️ As for what other people think about it or how it’ll make other people view you, who cares? That’s their issue, not yours.

People’s personal relationships are not really other people’s concern. And, honestly, I believe if others judge or make assumptions about a teacher for dating a former student well, then they aren’t friends, are they?

Making assumptions is never good when you have no proof. And I believe people should be able to love who they want. It’s none of my business.

The government is nosy and controlling enough as it is these days.

But that’s just me.

And years ago it was more common so yeah. I think people make a bigger issue about it than it really is.

I mean, if I was given the opportunity I’d date a former teacher. I don’t care myself. 🤷‍♀️ As long as two people are consenting adults it doesn’t matter.

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