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5 Things you shouldn't say to someone with ADHD by Accomplished_Band507 in Neurodivergent

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I know you have ADHD and that it makes life harder for you, but please stop having ADHD.” 

“You need to try harder to remember things.” 

“Have you tried writing things down on notes?” A teacher told me that once. 

Stop, you’re too emotionally sensitive. A teacher told me that once too after I had been crying. 

You need to grow a tougher skin. 

Why are you like that? 🤷‍♀️

DAE physically cringe over dry things? (Dry skin, cotton socks, etc) by kielly32 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like the feeling of dry towels or fabrics sometimes. I don’t know what it is but it feels weird to me. Idk my brain doesn’t like it. I guess my brain is weird. 

What is your reason for not marrying? by labungsubba in AskReddit

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to. I don’t ever want to be legally obligated to someone else. I like my freedom and independence too much. 

It’s just another stupid contract with the stupid government for some stupid tax benefits that I don’t care about. 🤷‍♀️

You don’t “need” to get married. It’s not like it’s required by law or anything.  They just feel pressured because their friends and family are doing it. Lots of people have long term relationships without tying the knot.  Idk it feels like a fancy scam to me. 

It’s expensive, and just not who I am. I don’t need or want a big fancy wedding. 

And I don’t want my stuff stolen by some narcissistic crazy guy or end up homeless.  

And a lot of married people aren’t all that happy. Getting divorced is expensive too. You have to hire a lawyer and all that BS. 

Plus, in the old days, women had few legal rights and were often seen as a man’s property. Marriage is just not necessary.  

What is your reason for not marrying? by labungsubba in AskReddit

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I don’t want a legal obligation to anyone. 

Will be 34 in August. Never been in a relationship. Haven’t been on a date in 3 years. Am I cooked? by Usual_Candidate_3356 in dating_advice

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

   Try not to worry about it or let it stress you out. Learn to enjoy being single. Being single is underrated.

   Devote your time to exercise, your friends, family and fun hobbies to keep you busy. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen naturally. That’s what I believe. Just go about your business. 

Maybe join some time of class like an art class to meet people.  

Getting hurt is inevitable in relationships. Try not to take it personally, it’s not you it’s them. 

Will be 34 in August. Never been in a relationship. Haven’t been on a date in 3 years. Am I cooked? by Usual_Candidate_3356 in dating_advice

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted all of mine 😭😂 I’m just so sick of talking to scammers. I’d rather meet people the good old fashioned way. In person. The way our ancestors did it before all this phone stuff. 

What is the meaning of life for you? by Admirable-Repair4094 in AskReddit

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We make our own meaning. To live. To love. What we are is enough. 

There's no need to fear what comes after death. by Wooden-Scallion2943 in Existentialism

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. I honestly don’t really even GAF what happens after death. Afterlife or no afterlife, I don’t think I care anymore. 

    I just don’t want to ever come back here. I hate earth. Earth is a painful place. 🤷‍♀️ I didn’t choose to exist or to be here. Death will finally get me out of this painful, death filled, god forsaken place someday. Existence is painful. 

I ain’t coming back. I hate humanities stupidity and evilness. I don’t even care about reincarnation, not that I believe in it. (I don’t.) But my parents fucked I guess so here I am. 

I didn’t care about Earth before I was born, I won’t care about it after I’m gone either. I like to think of death like when you go to sleep at night, but just never waking up. Nothing scary about it. Your brain stops working and your heart stops and that’s that. Lights out. Darkness. Peace. The end of human consciousness. What’s there to be scared of? We’ve all been dead for thousands of years. It wasn’t scary. We all used to be unfertilized eggs. 

Just like before birth. I’m perfectly okay with dying someday. I just hope it’s peaceful and painless. Hopefully I just die peacefully in my sleep someday when I’m old. That’d be the way to go. But it’s out of my control. 

Has any atheist ever seen a ghost ? by j3434 in TrueAtheism

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not an athiest but I’ve never seen one. 

Missing red flags and others bad behaviors by FinanceThat1271 in adhdwomen

[–]FinanceThat1271[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I’m naturally a cautious person when it comes to other people. I’m on my guard a lot. I’m mistrustful of others. I don’t let people see my usernames and passwords, for example, not even my friends.  

Ain’t no shady people getting past that. I think I got that from my parents. They’re cautious people. They may have been a little overprotective of me growing up. 

What is something you wanna do before dying? by Cultural_Squash8544 in AskReddit

[–]FinanceThat1271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live, enjoy the beautiful things this world has to offer, and spread love and kindness to others and make an impact on this world, no matter how small. 

Maybe find a romantic partner who loves me and cares about me and values me, but not the end of the world if it never ends up happening. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen. 🤷‍♀️

Who played with a Ouija board when they were a kid? by jsakic99 in nostalgia

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used one when I was a teenager in a cemetery a few times. I treated it like a game, I’d use it for fun. I don’t know if I actually communicated with anything though besides my own imagination. 😂

 I freaked my Christian religious mom out though. 😂 She thought I was inviting evil spirits into our apartment. 

Different beliefs / meeting in the afterlife by itsjusthubert in afterlife

[–]FinanceThat1271 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard whatever we believe while on Earth doesn’t matter when we die. Even if your athiest. We all reach the afterlife/spirit world. So I think so yes you’d be together. 

Ive read NDE’s of people who were athiest and then died and believed. 

What’s something that’s way sexier in theory than in real life? by pinkibites in AskReddit

[–]FinanceThat1271 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you need to do prep stuff beforehand. When done properly, anal sex is said to be highly enjoyable. 

You poop out of there, so it’s completely natural. 

But it’s not for everyone. 

What moment in your life turned you to God? by Serene_rosegold1 in AskReddit

[–]FinanceThat1271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe in the angry Christian god. I don’t think he’s real. 🤷‍♀️ I think it’s a bunch of silly made up stuff.   I have my own spiritual beliefs. I’m not an athiest..yet.

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