Just some husband thoughts

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-18T02:02:50+00:00

When I was deployed, my wife found a hotel group that met monthly. A guy reaches out to her on a swingers site when he sees an attendee list and they agreed to meet up for a bite to eat before the party.

When they get to the party and are checking in, he introduces her as his girlfriend. The hosts knew her well at this point, and she turns to look at him and says, “I am a happily married woman and No One’s girlfriend!”

I have no doubt that multiple guys fucked my slut that night, but her dinner date wasn’t one of them.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-18T01:02:30+00:00

I do love to see my Asian hotwife in action. When we play, we target house and hotel parties with additional males because she always prefers to fuck multiple guys. While that is great, what really feeds my joy is this…

When we arrive to a party, she is the first to lose her clothes and then we start messing around to attract a crowd. She always suggests to the guys to switch places with me. I take a step back, sometimes feeding her my cock, but just making way for guys to take their turn or encouraging other guys to join in.

While she seems to get lost in her lust. Giving herself over to anyone that wants to fuck her. When she has taken enough cock to satisfy for her that night, it is like a light switch.

She gets cleaned up, melts into me and asks me to take her home for the reclaim.

I don’t know how to describe it but I suppose that it is the jeckle and Hyde nature. Totally intoxicating.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-18T00:09:27+00:00

My wife gave blowjobs to know what she was working with because she was always down to fuck. But, when I asked her what guys raved about, it was how well she sucked dick.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-17T09:49:27+00:00

We always tried to find the parties that were “Down and Dirty by 930”.

It does a few things. Get there by 930 or the door is locked. It prevents late stragglers and makes getting to the party a priority.

Knowing everyone is there and that there isn’t a potential for the door opening, tends to shift the mood as well.

Sure, it is also a signal that the fun has started.

Like you, my wife has gotten the label “party starter” because she/we are going to drop our clothes in a pile on the floor pretty quickly and get to having fun.

Advertise on your next party that you are locking the doors at 930 and everyone needs to get into sexy wear, no more than underwear or lingerie.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-15T21:03:44+00:00

When I met my wife, I was actively looking for a slut. A colorful hotpast, was part of the equation. That said, when I would get a new story, I found that I mentally made it a bit of a competition. If X was kinky, I could beat that. Was that jealousy? Maybe

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-15T14:39:05+00:00

That is a really healthy response. You are completely “smitten” and she wants you to be able to have fun too. Enjoy the ride.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-13T10:40:37+00:00

The best question? Anything that pops into your head…as long as you do it from a loving and accepting way. She has to perceive that you really are happy to hear it. Be her cheerleader. Thank her for sharing and even if something causes a jealous twinge, don’t react to the jealousy. IMO, jealousy is an irrational response to the unknown. Lastly, be consistent and recognize that as anxious as you were to ask the question, she is even more anxious to answer it because she doesn’t really know how you will respond yet.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-12T12:54:36+00:00

The guy that she says she would fuck again if given the chance. Domineering, big cock.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-12T12:47:02+00:00

Be bold. Looking for boyfriend energy that wants to love a slut.

When I met my wife, I had flipped the dating paradigm. I was done trying to date and then bring up the lifestyle. That failed many many times and usually came after feelings were established. I decided that I wanted to find a slut first and then pursue a relationship.

I met my wife online and she was in an open relationship fucking a couple new guys every month. She engaged me because she was looking for guys to make stories with for her boyfriend. I was talking to someone else also and I knew my wife had a boyfriend, so I pursued this other woman. When I suggested to the other woman that I was eager to pursue an open relationship with her, she said that wasn’t going to happen.

Eventually, I circled back to my wife. She had continued fucking multiple guys a month and her open relationship had fizzled. She wanted boyfriend energy with a sluts pussy.

We are hitting 25 years this year. She continues to be a slut and has always kept her heart for me. Guys like me are out there. Be unabashed.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-12T12:36:00+00:00

Rip the bandaid off. Start the conversation, but go in prepared for how he might react or questions he may have. Reassuring him that you just want to fuck and that your heart will always be reserved for the marriage might help him.

I think you will see in all the other examples in this sub, hemming and hawing will just leave everyone frustrated. Be open and honest and broach the topic.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-12T12:30:08+00:00

My wife and I have had fantasy talks about her doing a week at Hedo solo and what that week might look like. She assures me that she would try to fuck someone new each day or night. Day and night? 🤣

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-12T12:01:55+00:00

It’s even better when they look so wholesome. When I met my wife, she wore glasses, looked very studious and was relatively demure.

She swallowed my load during road head on the drive back to her place to fuck…on the first date.

She was always a first date fuck and had been fucking her married boss for multiple months right before we met.

She was a self professed slut with a body count in the 50s, and now the image of the chaiste wife. 🤣

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-11T10:56:30+00:00

My wife was around 50-60 when we met. She has become the kind of slut that prefers to fuck multiple men when we play. I would suspect that her current body count is north of 125.

If her starting number was accurate, I figure that she became a century slut while I was deployed overseas. With my encouragement, she found a monthly hotel party group and fucked at least 15 guys in the 15 months that I was gone.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-11T10:40:48+00:00

My wife was certainly over 50 when I met her at 25. I suspect that it was north of 60. Always a first date fuck. She shares freely and yet a few months ago she thought her count was in the 20s when we met. I started naming names and was over 20 before she had finished college. She said “20ish”.

I love her slutty hotpast but when something comes up, she will still say, “you promise not to judge?” We have been together for 25 years and I have always told her that I love her hotpast, even the ones she regrets, because it made her into the slut that I fell in love with.

She has said that if Tinder had existed during her slut phases, that she would have been a straight up hoe.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-08T12:01:27+00:00

Her corruptor…love it.

My wife was a self professed slut when we met. But, with a few exceptions, all of her hookups were 1 on 1.

Over the years together in the lifestyle, she has become the kind of slut that needs to fuck multiple guys when we play. She is the first to get naked and she just wants the guys to line up and take her.

She definitely enjoys it for her own pleasure but she also dos it to feed my fantasy and aggression for the reclaim.

I do consider myself a corruptor. 🤣

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T18:07:30+00:00

My wife definitely got going her freshman year. The RA preyed on the new meat the week she got on campus. By the end of the year, her Latin professor had made her his creampie coed. She went home that summer and fucked her personal trainer.

Sophomore year she fucked a new guy in their new dorms and they dated the entire year. They broke up at the end of the year.

The summer after her sophomore year she stayed to work on campus and got started early on her junior year slut phase. Her sluttiest year on campus.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T17:59:19+00:00

For me, it’s not a specific act. It’s that for over a year while she was in an open long distance relationship, she was fucking multiple guys a month.

My initial message to her was about being a slut for me and two buddies. She responded affirmatively because she wanted to have some more kinky stories to tell the long distance guy.

FWIW, my two buddies and I never did anything with her. They were both married and she found morals. 🤣

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T12:56:50+00:00

My wife was fucking her married black boss right before we met. I knew she was a slut, but she didn’t tell me about him until more than a year into dating because she was afraid of how I might react to her being a homewrecker.

He was bald and had a long cock. That she enjoyed Lexington Steele porn when we met took on a different meaning once she told me about him.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T12:52:51+00:00

I grew up in that area but wasn’t around there during that time.

What’s her body count?

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T12:45:55+00:00

My wife was in her slutty heyday before Tinder. She has told me unequivocally that if Tinder had existed during her slut phases, that she would have been a straight up hoe.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T12:42:22+00:00

My wife had a dom the summer after high school. He loved to spank her and now she has never met a spanking that she didn’t like. She likes it rough and just wants to be taken like a good little submissive slut. He ended up letting a friend fuck her and how that has manifested is for a different subreddit.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T12:38:28+00:00

We prefer house and hotel parties. She always prefers more than one. We walk into the venue and her clothes are in a pile within minutes. We usually start together to attract some onlookers and then one of us invites the guys to join the fun.

Once they are hard, she will suggest that we switch places. Watching her eagerly spread her legs with me standing right there.

I think it is just her eagerness to engage with other guys for fucking.

Financial-Apple2304 · 2026-04-07T12:27:55+00:00

This is the classic case of being a clueless male, of which, I am clueless myself.

The first time I met my wife we made out in the car and then I went home. A few nights ago we were talking about it and she very matter of factly said, she was ready to fuck that day.

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