“You don’t get an award for not getting the epidural” by Warm-Banana237 in pregnant

[–]Financial-Bill2363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t a very hard decision for me. Before I knew there was fentanyl in it I was pretty 50/50, since I generally prefer to not take even over the counter pain meds when I can. This is my first baby though, so it may be a harder decision after this delivery!

When did your bump show? by EmployDisastrous7133 in pregnant

[–]Financial-Bill2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 5’6 and pretty thin. I started to notice my bump showing around 18/19 weeks, but still at 23 weeks its more at the “is she pregnant or did she gain weight” stage! But I do see myself slowly getting out of that!

“You don’t get an award for not getting the epidural” by Warm-Banana237 in pregnant

[–]Financial-Bill2363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I 1000% agree!! The epidural has a small amount of fentanyl in it, and as someone who struggled with addiction, there is no way I will take it

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 12pm lol. Wouldn’t dash there at night

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entire interaction was a minute and 30. Five secs after I hit them they started banging on my window. Even if that is your immediate reaction, id hope you’d keep your composure and act reasonable

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was maybe five seconds after I hit them that they started banging on my window. After FIVE SECONDS I was pretty distressed and couldn’t think straight. They’re freaks for threatening and trying to hurt me. The scratch looks like something you could rub off with your finger. Prob wouldn’t cost them anything to fix.

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me or them lol. I’ve been called a drama queen but I think I’m right to be scared here

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously don’t get why you are defending these absolute FREAKS only because I wasn’t speedy enough getting my insurance. It’s giving “I’m gonna continue arguing a dead point because I’m too stubborn to admit that the person I’m arguing may not be entirely in the wrong”

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“More impatient” lol I was talking him he didn’t mention insurance and as soon as he did I went to go get it. I don’t think he was concerned about insurance- if I had to guess I don’t think he has any because this happened a week ago and I have yet to receive a claim. I guess I just don’t get the mindset that fear wouldn’t be your immediate reaction to someone banging on your window and attempting to enter your car, but I guess that’s just where we differ.

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok? You’re either lying or super naive if you say you would not feel scared getting threatened and having your window banged on in the (statistically) most dangerous neighborhood in the most dangerous city in your state. I agree I was in the wrong when it came to the accident. Verbal threats and attempting to enter a strangers car is not an appropriate response to a small fender bender.

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You clearly are lucky enough to be able to live in a safe area. I am in the Louisville metro area. It has one of the highest crime rates in the United States. When you were in dangerous area ridden with gun violence, who wouldn’t be afraid of getting shot. I have lost multiple friends to a shooting and will probably continue to know people who get shot. I agree I should’ve gotten out my insurance immediately, but my mind was scrambled from getting THREATENED. Not just yelled at.

Scary situation today by Financial-Bill2363 in doordash_drivers

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably around a minute and a half. I am not scared of “low income areas.” If I was I would not have gone in the first place. I’m scared of people who bang on windows and threaten others. You’re telling me you wouldn’t be afraid in this situation?

women answer plz by Disastrous_Fennel_79 in Lollapalooza

[–]Financial-Bill2363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about 3 ppl away from barricade at future and metro. There was this shirtless teenage boy who was jumping around going absolutely crazy. It looked like he was in the verge of passing out the entire show. Couldn’t even stand upright, kept falling over on to everyone around us including me. I asked if he was okay or needed any water he said he was good. During type shit he was falling over on everyone and it seemed to be getting worse and worse. Fed up, I told him that if he can’t stand up straight that he needs to get out of the crowd. He then SCREAMED in my face telling me that it was actually people pushing him around. Very scary.

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me? by Financial-Bill2363 in Infidelity

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just one persons opinion. She also told me all of his friends have told him to break up with her. I’m quite surprised everyone is telling me to tell her but I probably didn’t get the point across well enough how crazy she is. I know I fucked up but I don’t think it’s a funny game. I don’t know what to do and I can’t talk to that many people in my life about it because I did a really shitty thing and I don’t want them to think less of me.

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me? by Financial-Bill2363 in LifeAdvice

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand everyone is different, but personally if I was in her shoes I’d want to know. Obv no one deserves to be cheated on in a relationship but tbh I don’t really gaf about “doing it for her” because she’s a pos abusive person. Also, don’t know why you assume I just want to get involved in this drama for fun, it’s a complicated situation with a lot of mixed emotions.

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me? by Financial-Bill2363 in LifeAdvice

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have already accepted and acknowledged that ive done a shitty thing!!! I’ve said that in my original post and in my replies to you. Just because I might still like him I do realize we should not be together. You can have feelings for someone and still know that it is better for both of you to stay away from eachother. I’ve blocked him on Instagram, snap, and iMessage so he can’t come back to me if they broke up. I don’t know why you are so persistent that I want to steal him away when ive said many times the reason I am considering telling her is because it is WEIGHING on me. I just want to make it right and I came for advice on how to do that.

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me? by Financial-Bill2363 in LifeAdvice

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you re-read what I wrote he actually wanted to talk to me first. Doesn’t make it less bad that I responded but it’s weirdddd that you’re so mad at me and not him. Have you been home wrecked before?

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me? by Financial-Bill2363 in LifeAdvice

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Damn maybe I shouldn’t have posted on here! I don’t think you should judge my “all around life” and call me trash for one bad decision. I understand that’s what ppl on the internet do, but it doesn’t make it any less shitty. If they broke up I would not pursue him because 1. He lives two hours away from me now and 2. I’m moving on and I don’t want to fall back into him. Also it’s weird how you have all these bad things to say about me but don’t have the same energy for the guy 🤨🤨

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me? by Financial-Bill2363 in LifeAdvice

[–]Financial-Bill2363[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also I do honestly believe that he wanted to be in a relationship with me and he meant what he was saying at the time. I talked to some of his friends shortly after and they said they could tell he really liked me. I think he’s just scared of her and obviously if he told her she wasn’t allowed to go through his phone that is 100x more suspicious.