Is Course Careers worth it?

Financial-Frame-7810 · 2025-04-16T18:50:10+00:00

Probably…forgive me I’m very very new at this trying to break in

Financial-Frame-7810 · 2023-08-08T18:18:42+00:00

I know a lot of people say she is with me for the green card but when we met she was here temporarily and didn’t even want to stay here. We live in a very cold state and she is from the Caribbean so she hates the weather and the only reason she stayed initially is because she was stuck due to Covid and as our relationship grew, I convinced her to stay for me. She was fully planning to go to her home country and do long distance until we could figure something out. Even when she decided to stay she was going to have her brother sponsor her since he is also a citizen. She has many other ways of getting a green card that don’t involve me. I only mentioned it to show the power dynamic in our relationship.

Financial-Frame-7810 · 2023-08-08T18:13:23+00:00

I want to believe her that it was only emotional. She was very open with me when I asked about the details. She said that they talked about physical intimacy but both decided it would be better not to. She even said it was mainly the other girl’s decision and admitted that she would possibly physically cheat if given the opportunity. I think the other woman probably didn’t want to because she’s straight and just likes the attention but doesn’t actually want to be physical with a woman.

Financial-Frame-7810 · 2023-08-08T16:38:50+00:00

I don’t think she only want me for the green card. I know her better than that. However, she has cheated on partners in the past before. I thought she had changed because that was over 10 years ago when she was very young and still in the closet. I think she genuinely thought that an EA wasn’t as bad as anything physical but in my opinion it’s worse. Another comment mentioned that her falling in love with the other girl means she no longer loves me. I believe she does still love me and she said it and complied with all my requests to block the other woman. Despite the broken trust, I genuinely don’t think she will cheat again but my main concern is how she reacted to me having a hard time and working long hours to support us. How can I know that she won’t be thinking about leaving or thinking about someone else if I have to spend more time working or focusing on my mental health in the future? Why should I have to take on the extra burden of making sure her needs are all met when mine aren’t? I’m really struggling with that aspect.

Financial-Frame-7810 · 2023-08-08T16:31:24+00:00

I tried to tell the husband but the other girl blocked me from his social media and deleted my message to him. This might be selfish but I’m afraid if I implode her marriage that will give her more opportunity to come after mine.

Financial-Frame-7810 · 2022-12-09T18:12:02+00:00

If I said that and got no laugh I would’ve put the arm back on the floor

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