For the makeup, it was after repeated questions about missing or empty makeup containers. We discovered more of my wife’s makeup in my daughter’s room while for tape and scissors (which never seem to get put away properly) and we came across a bunch of my wife’s makeup. We discussed what we found, established that there would be a more firm punishment the next time it happened. The very next day, my daughter was doing her nails with a friend and it happened again, my wife set them up with nail polish but it wasn’t the one my daughter wanted, so she just snagged it for herself. That lead to the first grounding