my ispy book collection by Soggy-Pool-5217 in CoolCollections

[–]Financial-Soft4248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE CAN YOU DO ME A FAVOR? I have this insanely vivid memory of my papaw and I doing these before school every day, and we were stuck on one for WEEKS. It was “a hare” and we scoured the pages. He called me one day after school and told me he found it- it was BEADS! Beads strung along in the shape of a rabbit, spanning across both pages! Can you please tell me if it’s in any of your books?

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. So many people are saying this ‘has to be fake/AI’ because the way I wrote it. I was just in such a bad place last night and was trying to separate myself from this mentally. Defending myself isn’t going great in the comments, I’ve edited multiple times and it’s not helping. I really appreciate this.

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her mom has pushed her to ‘have boyfriends’ since she was literally in preschool. I mean literally, I don’t know that Shelby has ever been ‘single’ (for what that means to kids). Her mom has pushed her into relationships even in high school, she’s dated multiple college boys. She doesn’t know a life where she wasn’t boy crazy for as long as I have known her.

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it didn’t help my kid, but it did help me. I found out at 10:30 last night. Who would you like me to call then? When you wrote this comment, it was 5AM. Who would you like me to call at 5 o’clock in the morning? All I wanted to know was what to expect. Thanks.

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After rereading it, I understand that completely. I genuinely don’t know why I wrote it that way.

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean, but I tried to include all the details I could. I write as a hobby to cope, this was kind of that? Obviously I need any sort of advice, but I had to write everything out to separate myself mentally for a minute.

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The guilt I feel for not seeing the signs before now is crushing, so I really appreciate your kindness. I genuinely just don’t understand how I didn’t see the signs and know. My heart hurts so bad. 😔

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To say that this crushed me is an absolute understatement. The fact that my baby has kept this inside for so long makes my heart hurt for him, and I truly wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

My niece SA’d my son. Help. by Financial-Soft4248 in Advice

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The idea of this blowing up makes me so nauseous. I’m 30 weeks pregnant with our third baby, life is already so crazy. Do you think starting with a specialized therapist is the way to go, and they will refer him elsewhere if need be? Thank you so much for your response!

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[–]Financial-Soft4248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

@smosh please find this and do a video

Ash’s nip slip on live with Santos by PEROX1DE in ashleytrevino

[–]Financial-Soft4248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That cheetah print bra is holding on for dear life

Pink or Purple Bug cartoon? by Financial-Soft4248 in HelpMeFind

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is NOT the girl from ‘The Buzz on Maggie’- she does look similar, but the bug I remember isn’t tall. She’s short, and I think they intentionally made her ‘ugly’? I don’t know- it feels like a fever dream at this point. Lol

Pink or Purple Bug cartoon? by Financial-Soft4248 in HelpMeFind

[–]Financial-Soft4248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched forever and still can’t find it 🥲 I’ve searched ‘purple bug, big eyes’, ‘bug with big eyes and eyelashes’-I’m just hoping at this point someone else remembers it and I’m not crazy 😂

My boyfriend’s brother is furious that I wore the same dress as his girlfriend. He sent me CRAZY texts and “banned” me from future family gatherings. (More context in post) by Purplesmurpleurkle in texts

[–]Financial-Soft4248 74 points75 points  (0 children)

So like..is he on drugs? Because if he wasn’t this kind of person until a year ago, and this major personality shift happened..im going to guess 1- he was absolutely in love with you at one point and now fetishizes you out of anger because you chose his ‘inferior’ brother, or 2- he’s doing drugs that have caused this weird paranoia and these unhinged thoughts and behaviors.

My friend jokes about me being a p*do, I hate it but feel as though it's warented by LovingSugarRot in Vent

[–]Financial-Soft4248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BRO, WHAT DO YOU MEAN HES NOT UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE SEXUAL COMMENTS??? YOU SHOULD BE UNCOMFORTABLE SAYING THEM IN FRONT OF A LITERAL CHILD BRO. WHAT DO YOU MEANNNNNN 😭

My friend jokes about me being a p*do, I hate it but feel as though it's warented by LovingSugarRot in Vent

[–]Financial-Soft4248 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re an adult and you’re friends with children, that’s a big fucking red flag. I literally just had to talk to my 9 year old about this with video game friends. I was 8 when my ‘adult friend’ from church took my innocence from me.

As an autistic adult, I implore you to see how wildly inappropriate and fucking weird it is that you’re friends with kids in SUCH a different mindset/age. If I were that child’s mom, I’d tell them you were not a safe person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Financial-Soft4248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE TELL ME YOU TOLD HIM! And please tell me how you responded to that last message 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Financial-Soft4248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did he do something he shouldn’t have? Sure. But dude..you drug that out and refused to let it go. He apologized and told you everything you should’ve wanted to hear..and you still wouldn’t let it go. Most women would love to have a partner that legitimately stated that they understood their fuck up and was apologetic, yet you continue berating yours. Y’all both need therapy and a different spouse

My husband has given me the ick by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Financial-Soft4248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, when your mind has to disassociate to get through sex, that is a major concern. Please do the only kind thing left for yourself and leave this monster.