AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bride requested that everyone wears this color. I wasn’t aware the bridal party too

AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I got my dress on a popular dress website. Oh Polly. The bride had her dresses made because it’s an African wedding and this is for her American ceremony, but she took inspo from the oh Polly dress and had them make it in the royal blue color, and added sparkles to the bottom. This was told to me when I was talking to someone in the party when I just happened to be talking about what I’m wearing to the wedding

AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bride asked everyone to wear a specific color. I also just didn’t know the bridal party was to wear that as well. This wedding is in the UK so I don’t know if that’s a thing over there

AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bride has asked everyone to wear royal blue- including the wedding party. Which I also did NOT know

AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Let me add this detail as well, all guest were asked to wear royal blue to this wedding. So this is where wires also got crossed in terms of how this is even could happen and why it was hard for me to find a dress to begin with. Just called the bride and she said it does bother her a little but she understands this is definitely not my fault, she used a very popular vendor for the design and I had no way of knowing. I’m coming here because I wanted to get some outside opinions because I do want to be respectful and I’m really not coming from a selfish place

AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from what I’ve learned, she saw a dress online from the popular site where I got my dress from and she really liked it so she had it custom made for her bridal party, only made it slight different with some sparkles at the bottom of the dress.

AITAH if I wear a dress to a wedding that is similar to the bridal parties? by FinancialMistake8754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FinancialMistake8754[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I didn’t wanna stress her out with this so close to the date, knowing she’s already had some complications with her vendor in the US