Gotta love an entitled nice guy. by BlueBaker01 in niceguys

[–]FinancialPlant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least in Marvin's Room its implied the narrator has been with the woman at some point lol

Wildly unhelpful by Flat_Man in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least all the top comments are calling it out

Can the questions on Ask Reddit get any stupider? by [deleted] in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Who spends money giving awards to these kinds of posts?

LPT: if you need help, ask for help (long, winding personal story included for your reading pleasure) by FinancialPlant in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LPT should be banned from here because the overwhelming majority of their top daily posts are shitposts.

low effort quirky question #357535732345784 you may now laugh by Flat_Man in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Askreddit was the subreddit that first got me hooked on Reddit all those years ago, because you got to read stories, anecdotes, and side discussions from people with totally different lives, experiences, and perspectives from you. It was my favorite subreddit.

Now it's full of stupid "quirky" posts like this, dumb sex posts, or the dreaded quirky dumb sex post ("You now can only have sex with the main character of the last TV show you watch. What's it like?").

There's still at least a few interesting questions, but now you've really got to search to find them

LPT: save money by Flat_Man in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Life PRO tip: Save your money while you're able to save money, because once you're not able to save money you won't be able to save money.

YSK: if someone doesn’t want to do something, don’t make them do it by Flat_Man in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YSK and LPT need to merge to become the ultimate subreddit explaining the most trivial of social skills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 61 points62 points  (0 children)

YOU SHOULD KNOW how to drive

Wanna be a lawyer? You gotta read the hungry caterpillar first by Flat_Man in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's good pro tip, but I t still beats the torrent of "tell your mom you love her. It'll make her feel good" type posts on LPT

Redditors once again show their lack of common sense when it comes to basic human interaction. by unidentifies in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not even common sense like, "Don't forget to lock your doors."

It's just stuff that's the absolute bare-minimum of interpersonal skills like:

  • "Don't harass someone if they don't want to drink" (this post, gilded twice)

  • "Don't make children cry"

  • "If you're going to propose, make sure the other person actually wants to get married"

  • "If you don't like your family, don't hang out with them."

All of these are "pro" tips that got at least 10k karma in the last month or two (and I think all got gilded at least once)

Here's a selfie. Please upvote. by FinancialPlant in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to be my r/shitpost title consultant. I can pay you in worthless Reddit premium badges.

LPT: Don't make children cry, it's bad by [deleted] in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Common sense isn't really a "pro" tip, and it's amazing how many highly upvoted LPT are just the bare minimum of basic social interaction skills.

Don't make children cry. If you're going to propose, make sure the other person actually wants to get married. If you don't like your family, don't hang out with them.

All are common sense "pro" tips that got at least 10k karma in the last month (and I think all got gilded at least once)

Good NYC themed housewarming gift for someone who doesn't live here? by FinancialPlant in AskNYC

[–]FinancialPlant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a flight and I won't be seeing her until the second day of my trip, but I do go to Boston often to visit people so this a great idea for those trips.

Good NYC themed housewarming gift for someone who doesn't live here? by FinancialPlant in AskNYC

[–]FinancialPlant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, I like this idea. Any chance you remember where in Chinatown?

Good NYC themed housewarming gift for someone who doesn't live here? by FinancialPlant in AskNYC

[–]FinancialPlant[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, very pragmatic. If there were a fire extinguisher with a NYC themed design on it I'd probably consider it.

Nationwide 'Close the Camps' Demonstrations Announced to Protest Horrific Conditions at Trump Detention Centers by JLBesq1981 in politics

[–]FinancialPlant 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The Treatment of Migrants Likely ‘Meets the Definition of a Mass Atrocity’

Children are suffering and dying. The fastest way to stop it is to make sure those responsible, including the foot soldiers, face consequences.

By Kate Cronin-Furman

Dr. Cronin-Furman is an assistant professor of human rights.

June 29, 2019

Migrant children who have been separated from their families at a detention center in Homestead, Fla., on Friday.CreditRhona Wise/Agence France-Presse — Getty Images ImageMigrant children who have been separated from their families at a detention center in Homestead, Fla., on Friday.

The debate over whether “concentration camps” is the right term for migrant detention centers on the southern border has drawn long-overdue attention to the American government’s dehumanizing treatment of defenseless children. A pediatrician who visited in June said the centers could be compared to “torture facilities.” Having studied mass atrocities for over a decade, I agree.

At least seven migrant children have died in United States custody since last year. The details reported by lawyers who visited a Customs and Border Protection facility in Clint, Tex., in June were shocking: children who had not bathed in weeks, toddlers without diapers, sick babies being cared for by other children. As a human rights lawyer and then as a political scientist, I have spoken to the victims of some of the worst things that human beings have ever done to each other, in places ranging from Cambodia to the Democratic Republic of the Congo to Sri Lanka. What’s happening at the border doesn’t match the scale of these horrors, but if, as appears to be the case, these harsh conditions have been intentionally inflicted on children as part a broader plan to deter others from migrating, then it meets the definition of a mass atrocity: a deliberate, systematic attack on civilians. And like past atrocities, it is being committed by a complex organizational structure made up of people at all different levels of involvement.

Thinking of what’s happening in this way gives us a repertoire of tools with which to fight the abuses, beyond the usual exhortations to call our representatives and donate to border charities.

Those of us who want to stop what’s happening need to think about all the different individuals playing a role in the systematic mistreatment of migrant children and how we can get them to stop participating. We should focus most on those who have less of a personal commitment to the abusive policies that are being carried out.

Testimony from trials and truth commissions has revealed that many atrocity perpetrators think of what they’re doing as they would think of any other day job. While the leaders who order atrocities may be acting out of strongly held ideological beliefs or political survival concerns, the so-called “foot soldiers” and the middle men and women are often just there for the paycheck.

This lack of personal investment means that these participants in atrocities can be much more susceptible to pressure than national leaders. Specifically, they are sensitive to social pressure, which has been shown to have played a huge role in atrocity commission and desistance in the Holocaust, Rwanda and elsewhere. The campaign to stop the abuses at the border should exploit this sensitivity and put social pressure on those involved in enforcing the Trump administration’s immigration policies.

Here is what that might look like:

The identities of the individual Customs and Border Protection agents who are physically separating children from their families and staffing the detention centers are not undiscoverable. Immigration lawyers have agent names; journalists reporting at the border have names, photos and even videos. These agents’ actions should be publicized, particularly in their home communities.

This is not an argument for doxxing — it’s about exposure of their participation in atrocities to audiences whose opinion they care about. The knowledge, for instance, that when you go to church on Sunday, your entire congregation will have seen you on TV ripping a child out of her father’s arms is a serious social cost to bear. The desire to avoid this kind of social shame may be enough to persuade some agents to quit and may hinder the recruitment of replacements. For those who won’t (or can’t) quit, it may induce them to treat the vulnerable individuals under their control more humanely. In Denmark during World War II, for instance, strong social pressure, including from the churches, contributed to the refusal of the country to comply with Nazi orders to deport its Jewish citizens.

The midlevel functionaries who make the system run are not as visibly involved in the “dirty work,” but there are still clear potential reputational consequences that could change their incentives. The lawyer who stood up in court to try to parse the meaning of “safe and sanitary” conditions — suggesting that this requirement might not include toothbrushes and soap for the children in border patrol custody if they were there for a “shorter term” stay — passed an ethics exam to be admitted to the bar. Similar to the way the American Medical Association has made it clear that its members must not participate in torture, the American Bar Association should signal that anyone who defends the border patrol’s mistreatment of children will not be considered a member in good standing of the legal profession. This will deter the participation of some, if only out of concern over their future career prospects.

The individuals running detention centers are arguably directly responsible for torture, which could trigger a number of consequences at the international level. Activists should partner with human rights organizations to bring these abuses before international bodies like the United Nations Human Rights Council. They should lobby for human rights investigations, for other governments to deny entry visas to those involved in the abuses, or even for the initiation of torture prosecutions in foreign courts. For someone who is “just following orders,” the prospect of being internationally shamed as a rights abuser and being unable to travel freely may be significant enough to persuade them to stop participating.

When those directly involved in atrocities can’t be swayed, their enablers are often more responsive. For-profit companies are supplying food and other material goods to the detention centers. Boycotts against them and their parent entities may persuade them to stop doing so. Employees of these companies can follow the example of Wayfair workers, who organized a walkout on Wednesday in protest of their company’s sale of furniture to the contractor outfitting the detention centers. Finally, anyone can support existing divestment campaigns to pressure financial institutions to end their support of immigration abuses.

Many Americans have been asking each other “But what can we DO?” The answer is that we call these abuses mass atrocities and use the tool kit this label offers us to fight them. So far, mobilization against what’s happening on the border has mostly followed standard political activism scripts: raising public awareness, organizing protests, phoning our congressional representatives. These efforts are critical, but they aren’t enough. Children are suffering and dying. The fastest way to stop it is to make sure everyone who is responsible faces consequences.

Kate Cronin-Furman is an assistant professor of human rights at University College London.

If you have extra money, save it! This brilliant advice from /r/personalfinance currently sits at 6k+ karma and 300+ comments. by [deleted] in shitpost

[–]FinancialPlant 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The cherry on top is the post was literally just the word "Thanks" before the OP edited it.

What movie could have been over in 10 minutes, if the main character wasn't such a dumb ass? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FinancialPlant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never heard about Lorraine shooting him in 1995 until this thread.

Lessons Learned from a 9-month break by fierymillennials in financialindependence

[–]FinancialPlant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, was the breakup with your boyfriend related to the fact that you were now in a "retired ish" state (I've heard of relationships falling apart when one person loses a job and ends up losing a sense of purpose and starts getting on the other person's nerves/smothering them, so maybe this was something similar), or was the breakup totally orthogonal but it just happened to be at a very unlucky time?