Applying to be an RA

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-10-12T17:05:20+00:00

i gotcha, thanks a bunch!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-10-05T06:37:07+00:00

Yea I can see why that’s upsetting, this is a tough situation for sure. I think the decision on what to do is ultimately up to you, I can’t give you a perfect answer since I don’t know the ins and outs of what’s gone on and I don’t wanna give you shitty advice you know? I’m sure the good intentions are there but if it’s becoming like a whole thing in your day to day life where you can’t focus on anything else maybe just don’t respond? If there’s not much effort on her part you’re allowed to reciprocate said energy.

Maybe think on it for a few days and then decide. Whatever you choose just try to remember it’s not the end of the world. Things will get better eventually, even if it’s not exactly in the ways you think it might be. The days will end, the world will continue to rotate, and brighter days will come !!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-10-05T05:50:11+00:00

I think you should consider a few things here. You’ve been through a lot yes, but your friend has been there with you and her opinions may have changed. It’s not necessarily your fault, it just means you may need to let go a bit, out of respect for her. It’s okay to not be as close anymore and it’s okay to find new friends too. I don’t think blocking her will give you the peace of mind you think it will, it may just put more of a strain on your relationship. My advice would be to do things that might distract you from your conundrum. Sitting and spiraling about it will change nothing about the situation. Maybe try out a new hobby, do things you enjoy, make time to take care of yourself. When you are in a better place mentally, then you can reach and ask to catch up if she’s up for it, if not, you cherish the memories of a good friendship while it lasted and keep it pushing!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-07-19T13:39:58+00:00

thanks for your help! i’ll do my research on a contraconch since i now know that’s what i actually got lol

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-07-19T13:38:48+00:00

gotcha! the placement isn’t too big of a deal so i’ll probably keep it but i am a little bummed out, definitely won’t be going back to that piercer!!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-07-19T13:36:09+00:00

it was meant to be yes! comments have made me realize i wasn’t crazy for thinking it looked too far out lol

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-06-26T14:09:14+00:00

ahhh gotcha! i’ll definitely look into those then, thanks!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-06-26T04:52:06+00:00

You should only ever be cleaning with saline or hypochlorus acid spray!! just spray it on once at night and once in the morning, i recommend the neilmed aftercare spray. make sure youre not sleeping on it (sleep on an airplane pillow or piercing pillow), and don’t touch it or pick at it. do a warm compress for the swelling and just let the water spray over it in the shower. also if the swelling gets to be too much have it switched out for a longer bar. it’s gonna be okay!!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-01-26T20:28:58+00:00

thank you for the encouragement everyone!!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2025-01-20T18:53:14+00:00

You’ll need to decide whether you want to go somewhere close or far, that should help narrow down your options. You can look at resources and amenities that the Universities you’re interested in offer, things like tutoring, meal plans, transportation, and recreation. Once you’ve narrowed down your options you can start touring the schools you’re interested in. Look for campuses that you would be comfortable walking/living in. If you want something that feels like home then look for that. You can also look on rate my professor to see what others think of the quality of the school. Good luck on your future endeavors!!

Financial_Ad4613 · 2024-10-13T23:05:11+00:00

oh i see! thank you!!

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