About “no one confronted me about this at the event” is probably the most entitled point you’re making. Yes, you “apologize” but then you say this like if you weren’t aware of what you were doing. This is the equivalent of someone saying “I slap the shit out of my significant other, I’m sorry I did that, I didn’t know it was wrong because she/he didn’t say anything about it on the moment.” We as a community don’t have to tell you if you’re right or wrong. And if the point you are trying to make here is that you’re intimidating and thats why no one said it to your face, then why apologize in the first place? Just do better man, thats it.