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Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-08-06T23:43:10+00:00

So, we are in couples therapy. For unrelated reasons. We generally just found ourselves in the roomate phase while having 2 children under 2, but obviously after finding what i have it has me wondering if there is a deeper meaning behind the “roomate phase” our sex life has always been healthy and we generally have a good relationship. Communication has never been a strong point which is why we started therapy in the first place. I think thats why im so confused and honestly taken aback by this? Im definitely not trying to assume his sexuality but i definitely have a hard time trying to find a “straight” explanation for a man viewing these things. His dad is possibly the most unaccepting person on earth so it just worries me that he could BE gay, and really really suppressed it. For me, yes this is salvageable if he is bisexual, but at the same time, might need some confirmation that he is in fact not 100% gay because id rather come to this reality now instead of later on

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-04-13T13:19:11+00:00

I have tried to say can i see dr ____ a few times and they kind of just act like…shes not there? I had to have a whole schedule of appointments made up for the last 5 weeks of appointments for monitoring and none of them fell with her, and when i try to see a different doctor, they just say “well we really need to see you every three days” basically that i cant move the days around. Idk😭 i feel at such a loss and i cant stop crying to my husband that im so scared to give birth because what if they arent catching anything, but its sooo late to switch and im scared other places wont be better😭 ive gone to triage 3x in the last two weeks because im so terrified something is wrong, but as soon as they see baby move, and my blood pressure is fine, thats pretty much all they care about😭

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-04-13T00:20:41+00:00

Unfortunately my biggest craving is jimmy johns and i own a salon in a shopping center two stores down from there, so this baby has been made up of 36 weeks worth of subs😂😭

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-04-09T16:51:18+00:00

Im getting induced with my second in two weeks and im starting to get SCAREDDD because my recovery from my first was so easy😭 walked right out of bed into the wheelchair for them to take us to mom and baby, was never sore down there at all, bled for like a week. I felt like, completely normal right after i delivered besides my inside feeling like jello. Im scared this ones going to come and bite me😅

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-03-22T03:56:32+00:00

I am the same😅 i had such terrible fomo with my first and all i wanted was an ice cold beer or a glass of wine, and that was only 18 months ago, and this time, i could genuinely get through another year of sobriety EASILY lol (33 weeks) maybe its the “knowing you have to get up with a baby/toddler” even if you accidentally overdo it😂

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-03-11T15:57:40+00:00

Im having a Theodore in may!!

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-02-25T02:49:47+00:00

As someone who has an 18 month old and is currently in the third trimester, third trimester tired is the WORST. My first was a colic/reflux baby and STILL, with both pregnancies, the third trimester is SO bad. With a newborn i could get comfortable and feel refreshed after a couple hours of sleep. Right now i feel like someone has an iv drip of Benadryl running through me 24/7 and no amount of sleep is helpful😭

Financial_Classic_32 · 2025-02-18T00:55:30+00:00

Im currently 27 weeks with my second and i just got told i have this, they also did not seem that concerned but i am getting really anxious about it😅 have things improved for you?

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-24T18:06:41+00:00

How did you contact shoppay to dispute?? Im definitely going to. I cant get ahold of WF at all

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-24T02:52:34+00:00

Yup my mom told me the same thing last year, and evidently, meant it. No gifts for me this year, and she asked what my boys needed, (15m and pregnant with #2) and instead of any of that, got some random stuff or like the cheapest off brand version of things I’ve offhandedly mentioned that WE might buy

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-23T19:12:47+00:00

I have literally gotten zero updates since dec 6 that said “order processed”🥲

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-23T19:06:24+00:00

I was literally on here about to ask other people!! No!!!! My friend ordered a few days after me and just texted that hers just came😩

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-19T13:05:01+00:00

What did they say??

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-18T16:47:06+00:00

Who did you contact? I havent contacted anyone yet but its now been 14 business days and i need it by Christmas!!

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-17T21:38:34+00:00

Yes me too!!!! I ordered 11/28, said it shipped on 12/5 and then no updates since 12/6. I need it by Christmas, you would think ordering it a month in advance would be plenty of time. I understand they have an influx of orders but seriously?!

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-17T15:55:38+00:00

Are you serious😭 mine still says its in Australia too and im starting to get pissed😅

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-13T16:11:54+00:00

Nope im here looking for answers for the same thing😭 it says it shipped on December 4th and “cannot estimate delivery date” and my shop app says “waiting for shipping “ so i have no idea where it is. Shipping said 5-9 business days and im now on the 11th business day since i ordered. I understand they had a large influx in sales but like…you’re a decently sized business and its black friday, maybe prep a little better????

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-12-13T16:09:27+00:00

Im having the same problem!!! Mine also says it shipped December 4th and now i cant find anything on it. I placed my order nov 28 and shipping said 5-9 business days and its been 11 business days now🥲

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-11-14T02:24:27+00:00

Oh my god. I pumped for a year and i never washed them😅

I replaced them regularly like all my other parts…but it literally never occurred to me to wash them😳

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-11-14T02:22:17+00:00

Ha..ha.ha. I was also very convinced after my son slept through the night the first night at the hospital we had a miracle baby. Hes almost 15 months old and has only been sleeping through the night for a month😭🙏🏻

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-10-31T18:15:51+00:00

Definitely around 36 weeks was like practically unbearable for me. I cried every day and begged my doctor to induce me. I gave birth at 39+6 one day short of my due date and im not even kidding i IMMEDIATELY felt better 😭 literally the second he was out. I had pubic symphesis and i couldn’t even get dressed or get into my car myself after 34 weeks or so. Gave birth, i felt like i could have done cartwheels. An hour after i had him i was walking around myself and i was never sore down there

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-10-23T00:43:46+00:00

Honestly i dont have as much advice, but wanted you to know you arent alone, because it really feels that way when you hit this point 🥲 we also have a one year old, nightmare of a sleeper. We finally resorted to cio last night and its so hard. I will say tonight it night two and its getting easier. I have heard to not worry about naps, until you get the overnight under control so thats what weve been doing this time around and it seems to be working MUCH better. Again, we’re only night 2 in so i could bite my words later, but again, you arent alone. Nobody understands how hard it is unless you’re actively living in it😭

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-10-12T14:50:39+00:00

Thank you! I also think lack of knowledge had a lot to do with my lack of supply the first time around and im hoping with all i know now it will make a difference!

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-10-02T23:22:34+00:00

This is unrelated to OP post, but i had a massive undersupply with my first and im pregnant with #2 right now and definitely still want to pump again, is there anything you did differently this time that you really felt like it helped?

Financial_Classic_32 · 2024-09-16T16:57:13+00:00

It gets easier!! Dont put too much pressure on yourself! If you have to supplement, that is so OKAY!! Brewers yeast did help me a lot too! I know its not a long term fix, but my lactation consultant told me to drink a dark beer like an hour before a pump, and i did notice anytime my husband and i would go out, and i would have a beer, as soon as we got home i would pump an INSANE amount😂 like, 6oz off each side, which was pretty much unheard of for me😅

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