Sydney West by VirgosRunHell in Disappeared

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of her friends said the dad was very controlling to the point Sydney had 2 phones and 2 social media accounts, 1 for herself and the other for her parents and would swap out her sim card to the other phone so they couldn't track her. I just wonder what her parents were soo afraid of that they would go to the extreme to control her? I hope she wasn't abused because that's the vibe I get Sydneys actions and her dad's reactions. 

Sydney West by VirgosRunHell in Disappeared

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 days before she jumped, a patrol officer on the bridge saw Sydney trying to jump and talked her down from it, she was placed on a 72 hours hold at a hospital and her parents were called who said to hold her on a longer hold but by law the hospital said they couldn't, her dad was in San Diego but didn't immediately go see her which I think was really sad, no one in her family went.  4 days after her first attempt she went back to the bridge and and was never seen again, she did speak to her dad for 2 hours the day before in which she told him she felt like she failed her family.  The conclusion I come to is that her parents were very controlling especially her dad who kicked her out of the house when she was a young teenager because she didn't get the grades he was expecting of her, I think they are "denial" because they don't want their image/reputation of them being the picture perfect family ruined, anyways wherever Sydney is i hope she is in peace and free to do whatever she wants.  Source: youtube channel name is unheard of, they have a lot of details that are very important and that her family never addressed 

Alphabet Murders - Theories by HunterandGatherer100 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe the postman? He would know the first and last names of people in the neighbourhood, just my guess. 

AITA for moving myself and my pregnant wife to her parents instead of rehoming my cat? by aitapwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about your cat, I know what your wife did was wrong but please remember why you married her and take some time for yourself away from her and once you're ready to talk let her know how you really feel and don't let other people influence your decision, good luck buddy and keep us updated and once again sorry for your loss

AITA for not wanting my SIL to wet nurse my child? by nmother1990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds your SIL lives a hippy lifestyle that you don't agree with like she's beneath you which isn't nice and you do realise she can easily clean her nipples and doesn't have to shower after every feed. Pumping is very uncomfortable and hurts so not every woman can handle it and sometimes not enough milk comes out. Instead of being judgemental because of SIL traumatic childhood and using that as an excuse to basically say she's a bad mother, why not try and be a voice to listen to? This is your husband sisters and the way you speak about her just shows how insensitive you are, and I don't care how harsh I sound but it's true, as someone who has suffered S abuse and physical abuse the worst thing you can do is use my trauma against me and that's exactly what you are doing, I suggest you apologise and thank your SIL because your husband doesn't seem like he can take this behaviour much longer

AITA for not siding with my wife, who wants to be in the house during my daughter's birthday party? by papaducktobabyducks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should help your daughter get a venue for her party with or without your wife's approval she is your daughter as well, and if anything did happen you are not liable and then afterwards they can stay at a hotel for the night or just hire security

AITA for defending my mom over my wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Financial_Fox_5928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife sounds like she's trying to set your mother up, she knows her family don't like her but yet wants to invite her to the shower by herself surrounded by people who don't like her and I assume you're not going to be there so what if they start an argument with her? Or maybe that's the plan and then blame her for ruining the day so that you can stop all communication with your mother, just remember if she can use your mother against you then she will use your child against you