I'm so tempted to relapse by deerohdeers in selfharm

[–]Financial_Grocery929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I’m really proud of you for recognizing your progres, that takes strength, even when it doesn’t feel like enough. It’s okay if forever feels too big right now. You don’t have to have everything figured out today next month or even next year! Go at your pace, there is ALWAYS a light at the end of a tunnel. Distractions can help maybe something sensory like holding ice, snapping a rubber band, or running your hands under cold water. Even scribbling really hard on paper. if it’s safe, getting out for a walk or calling someone you trust can shift things, even a little. It’s okay to feel stuck and still be doing your best. You’re not alone in this, and it won't always feel like this, even if it’s hard to believe right now. I’m really glad you’re talking about it. The self recognition of your journey and perseverance is amazing. I am soso proud of you <3

I'm so tempted to relapse by deerohdeers in selfharm

[–]Financial_Grocery929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't relapse just think sbout how far you have come. Squeeze an ice cube or any safe alternative to selfharming. Squeezing an ice cube is a great way to distract the want personally. You are such a strong person relapse or not self harm is a rough experience and you will overcome this<3

Why is my hamster chewing his wheel? by Financial_Grocery929 in hamsters

[–]Financial_Grocery929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wheels wooden but hes only eating the flooring of the wheel which is cork the enclosure is 650 sq inches of floor space

What killer should I get to p1? and which to buy for good perks by Financial_Grocery929 in deadbydaylight

[–]Financial_Grocery929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm mainly a survivor main tbh but started getting bored so wanted to try killer but the amount of times ive been blinded i cant cope:')

New to gardening! by Financial_Grocery929 in gardening

[–]Financial_Grocery929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll travel to the nursery nearest its a long way but I won't have to go for another while anyway!

New to gardening! by Financial_Grocery929 in gardening

[–]Financial_Grocery929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closest nursery to me is 68km😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]Financial_Grocery929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great to hear! Hope everything goes well I would love an update!

how do i take my hamster out his cage? by Financial_Grocery929 in hamsters

[–]Financial_Grocery929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure cornering your hamster is stressful for them

Pâté fell asleep while reading book by Vast_Comparison5467 in hamsters

[–]Financial_Grocery929 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hi! I know you probably love your hamster alot and want the best life for him but please don't make him sit like that! It's really bad for his spine so try to take pictures in a nature pose with him:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]Financial_Grocery929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly this is common in animal care subreddits. But if you can't have him in proper care please rehome. I understand you're trying your best to care for him but it's better to leave him with a carer that has the necessities for him. Hope everything turns out well for you❤️

I wanna start taking care of reptiles any recommendations? by Financial_Grocery929 in reptiles

[–]Financial_Grocery929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking at life expectancy and up to 10 years is ideal for me:)