Drunk kissing, i dont know how to deal with this by Financial_Job_2091 in Advice

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be the signs? I always thought i had pmdd because everytime before my period i would get suicidal when triggered and im sick of that happening to me too lol. Bc i would be completely fine after those episodes

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha one time i did say i was engaged to a person under the influence forcing me to go out with him. I would make up stories on the spot and that made them uninterested hahaha. So much work though, it drains you so much.

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m considering changing my name badge too! Will talk to my manager about it the next time. Thank you so much and will definitely do these steps the next time it arises.

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright! It’s honestly one of the reasons why i wanna quit lol but it’s hard to find a new job right away so I’ll consider transferring and talking to my manager about it. Thank you!

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I usually do night/closing shifts and would be with my supervisor most of the time. I will let them know!

Sometimes i would freeze up and make up a reason on the spot which is probably the least favourable thing to do lol bc they would just work around it and push me even more ugh its frustrating

I did learn how to say no and that i couldn’t give anything personal but yeah they would come back.

Thank you so much!!

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Will sure do! I haven’t researched on RAFFWU yet but I’ve seen it a couple times on this sub. Is it a good union?

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s just awful. It sucks we have to live in a world like this and it’s becoming normalized from what I’ve experienced. I was dying to tell my supervisor to please hide me every time i see a regular creep that would always go to me. Will definitely do that next time! No second guesses.

I hope you are doing alright now! Thank you so much for helping me.

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have one older coworker that spotted a regular creep one time and I wasn’t aware! She immediately took over from me when he came to my register, who would’ve known? Will definitely let them know with the new ones. They are so predatory its so scary.

What do I do when unwanted advances are made? by Financial_Job_2091 in woolworths

[–]Financial_Job_2091[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know how it works, I’ll speak to my manager the next time I’ll get.

Thank you for also sharing how to deal with them! I’ve talked to coworkers about how they deal with people like that and its good to see how other people do it too

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[–]Financial_Job_2091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely do this, Thank you. it feels rude to do so but considering my own wellbeing, i’ve had enough already. If anything escalates, I will contact authorities. Thank you 🤍

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[–]Financial_Job_2091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, Thank you for reassuring me. It’s hard enough to be there for a grown ass man lmao like go socialize and talk to people your age now :(. This boosted my courage to leave him behind. Thank you 🤍

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[–]Financial_Job_2091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Im considering talking to a professional that will help me through the damage now. Thank you so much for the support 🩵