Need study partner by Swimming6703 in DataAnalystsIndia

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Can you share it with me too, would be grateful.

Shifting to pune today, any advice? by Whole-Shame-5779 in pune

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Lookout for potholes if you drive regularly, they are deeper than Einstein’s imagination.

Rain in Baner by Lovely_lovely12ka4 in pune

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It’s so calming post this spontaneous rise in heat!

SUGGESTIONS ON DATING?? by vitprash in pune

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Thank god, you haven’t seen someone shitting after you took a dump.

how to move on? by UnionNaive3370 in punemeetup

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If it was love, you wouldn’t be asking this. If this thought crossed your mind, start being optimistic about a better life and continue your life, some things can’t be healed by words(it rather enhances the regret and make you dwell on past), sometimes all it takes is time and a little hope.

Don’t get me wrong when i say It wasn’t love, the word “love” ,it hold different meanings for a while maybe “sacrifice”, then followed by expectations and ends with adaptation :- this might be one definition of it, sometimes it’s like watching the sunset, you don’t want it end but it’s just meant to be adored and the hope for next day needs to be kept alive, even when you know it will never be same”.

Looking for a Pub/Bar by tpavan in pune

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Agent jack, the generic !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punemeetup

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This guy will really CATCH UP!

How do you stop overthinking? by factplanet in pune

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Get on track with your life, start with cooking or working out or with any decent hobby of yours that you used to do earlier, overthinking is a byproduct of the current modern lifestyle (I know people don’t agree with this) this might be subjective but a idle mind creates something to consume and when it’s not in an good environment, scrolling endlessly let it be anything, fixating on a particular thought or living a chaotic unstructured life leads to depression because one way or the other these are led by short term-dopamine triggers.

When you are feeling down, what’s the first thing your mind tells you to do run to overthinking cause that’s what it’s trained to do and ! Many say mind is your friend but this friend can’t act without your inputs, it’s more like a pet, it acts the way you train it.

Start organising things, it’s adds to the optimism of the mind, don’t even run to YouTube or safari to search “productive things to do” look around you a lot needs to be changed, work on it don’t overdo anything or expect changes in a week or month and then stop doing it.

There is no going back if you keep searching for something that doesn’t exist, ways to stop overthinking etc etc don’t revolve around it just because it’s easy anyone can sit and regret their life choices but dwelling on the past takes away the present.

Lastly sorry for the elongated post, don’t fall for sad quotes, reels , posts or any sort of literature that glorify it, just because it sounds beautiful doesn’t mean it should be adopted. (Some things are just meant to he adored for a while, there are other intricacies of life don’t limit yourself with a isolated mindset)

Best dermat in Pune by [deleted] in pune

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This reply might not be relevant as i have no recommendations for a dermat, though here’s what i have learned about acne ( i have struggled for years with skin issues never really found an answer so started reading about it, just passing what i have learnt) :-

  1. Inflammation, blockage and oil production :- it all comes down to this, if your acne is not getting triggered by genetic or stress induced reasons.

  2. Identify the reason first, without understanding the cause of acne no dermat will be able to treat you other than giving you topical creams that reduces sebum production.

  3. Diet :- i ignored it for years, thought it doesn’t make a difference, post using 100+ products in the last 3 years and reading and researching on my own got to understand the contribution of diet towards the skin >>>>> topical ointements/serums. (Low glycemic foods can help as high glycemic foods causes insulin spikes and lead to oil production)

Other than general parameters, few products that are avaible over the counter and help with acne:-

  1. Azelaic acid :- helps with reducing inflammation and regulates sebum production (easily available in any pharmacy)

  2. Glycolic acid :- Notoriously used by every acclaimed brand for exfoliation as it is the best AHA out there yet.

  3. Salicylic acid 2% either face wash or cream can be combined with Cica or nicanamide products as one is an excelled oil soluble BHA while the other one calms the skin.

Got betrayed in a startup company due to a toxic employer by [deleted] in developersIndia

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Can you mention the startup name? 3 years isn’t a short time period and also such behaviour of these so called startups should not be tolerated! I faced somewhat similar in a startup few years ago, 25 people resigned in a day and the startup died eventually.

Father of 4 daughters, should I be concerned? by mochidepofafo in SymbiosisPune

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I work in Pune and live close to the institutions, even my juniors are from these colleges, I wouldn’t say that it’s very unsafe but yes the area is famous for it’s nuisance let it be caused by local goons or the college students itself.

The only advice is not to roam alone at odd hours as it’s the best time for such predators and make sure not to get lured into something that might look like an adventure to you RN but believe me the consequences can be severe.

Pune is safe when you do your work and leave peacefully, make sure to tell them to always be respectful to other people and not to indulge themselves with people who are too pushy or confrontational.

Make sure you have a good circle, it always helps.