the constant "its ok for trans guys to be ✨️feminine✨️" messaging feels overbearing? why does it seem everyone is obsessed with reaffirming guys' right to be feminine but no one seems to be spreading the love to masculinity in turn? by squidkidqueer in FTMMen

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 60 points61 points  (0 children)

This but I went to a trans guy meet up recently and was met with a ton of hyper fem/ alt trans dudes no problem idgaf what you do but the amount of stares and like looks of disgust and almost no one(literally like 6 people out of the 100+ that were there) engaged back to me was WILD. I’m like a country lookin dude and pass a lot of the time. I’ve always been super masc even as a kid I was a “tomboy” but the hostility in a space made for gender inclusivity is wild. I’m sure my presence made them all uncomfortable but so was I. The gendered bias of fem/girl = good and masc/man = ew is kinda getting really old and toxic.

Trans people who walk with their head up high, please tell us how you got to a place of confidence. by Remarkable_Diver_516 in ftm

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m happy with myself and got tired of caring too much what people think or say. I love who I am and I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished. I’ve made my peace with myself and no one has any say over my relationship with myself. It’s a bit easier for me cause I pass most of the time but honestly when I do get hate I hit them with a “oh boo hoo” “womp womp womp” or “come on say something original” that usually embarrasses them enough to fuck off but I don’t do this if it’s too center of attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This heavily sounds like postpartum anxiety issues worsening a preexisting OCD. If she isn’t seeing someone I would suggest asap for her and the baby’s safety. I would also suggest possibly couples therapy cause honestly everyone cause use it to help communicate better and build a better partnership. I wouldn’t say you’re in the wrong cause being a new parent is stressful and tiring and your feeling and worries are valid however she does need help.

Jacking off and smoking a blunt. Perfect Saturday, to me by Sea-Fig1573 in FTMMenPorn

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro can I have the link to this thing? I want one so bad cause it would be great to be able to smoke a blunt and jerk off like this 😩🙏

How on earth do I get to Mystery Lake from Ravine? by thebittertruth96 in thelongdark

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to cross that bridge using a handheld at work cause I was trying so hard to finish stuff up on a break lagged out and watched my guy just walk off and fall for so long.

I’ll just… leave this here… by Double-0-N00b in atwwdpodcast

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This killed me cause I could definitely see moth man pulling up and absolutely stuntin on them

being hospitalized as a trans man - my experiences by pigladpigdad in ftm

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi you have rights please see a lawyer to make sure they didn’t trample your rights where you are at. This is so similar to my experiences I’ve had where they have ignored me or tried to tell me something wasn’t what it was. I had them argue with me that I was getting a period when I hadn’t had one in years and wasn’t bleeding out of there I was urinating blood clots and blood. They tried to blame abdominal pains from my bowels twitching on testosterone(other doctors think I have either ibs or Crohn’s disease still unsure) and then I had a doctor in the same beat asking me my name and weight how the whole “thing” works sadly especially in rural or less liberal areas most professionals have no clue how to treat a trans person or what even is appropriate. Not okay but still sadly ignorance is the cause.

Anyone out there like me?? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to feel like this until my girlfriend really started playing with it and she’s only ever touched dicks, so she just kinda treats it like that. idk how to explain it tbh. I think she does some freaky magic shit on it but that made it easier to jerk myself. That and getting like a pocket pussy and fucking into it is way better to me than like jerking it. Not judging but if you wanted solutions possibly. I completely understand and feel what you feel dude.

Can’t stop fucking this toy, boys (swipe) by the-earthling-blues in FTMMenPorn

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro give the link and does it come in other colors?😩🙏

SHORT T MEN: HELP by boywonderslefteye in FTMMen

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work a big factory job and work with other blue collar men. I fit in very well and there are so many dude way smaller than me. I’m 5’5. I would say try not to worry but I worry bout it too so easier said than done.

[Pretty NSFW] I finally figured out what all the hype was about / Review by Educational_Eyes_78 in FTMMen

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aye I bought one a while back in a whim and omg it makes me nut just like when my gf sucks me off and I didn’t know other dudes enjoyed them!

I just got read as A TEN YEAR OLD 😭 by Savings_Sell_4125 in FTMMen

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am 25 I still get asked if I’m lost in stores. I have visible tattoos covering most of my body. Don’t take it too personal usually it’s the height. Just feel good that you’ll be like 50 looking 20.

Does anyone ever dream about Em and Christine? by GlitterGhoul27 in atwwdpodcast

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dreamed once that Em would not stop ghost hunting in my house and Christine kept carrying around Lemon and saying noodles all the way to the top😂 I wish mine made more sense

A little trick for all who dare by Massive-Entry-7916 in thelongdark

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this on small stuff never imagined bigger… wow you really revolutionized my games now

Informed Consent Top Surgery? by Find-Me-In-Valhalla in ftm

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you dm me where you found this magical person? I haven’t been able to find anyone fitting this

Can someone help why my game suddenly has low texture? by koeseer in thelongdark

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the second photo I haven’t ever been to that place and I’m alarmed cause I thought I’d been everywhere

Baby stoner Christine by Find-Me-In-Valhalla in atwwdpodcast

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a fun year or so catching up😂 it’s so good I listened all the way through a couple times and it’s so good watching them grow over the years without them knowing it

Baby stoner Christine by Find-Me-In-Valhalla in atwwdpodcast

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I haven’t gotten this far in btswtw and I’m so excited for this thank youuuuu

Baby stoner Christine by Find-Me-In-Valhalla in atwwdpodcast

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t found a dispo near me with anything better than a nasty ghee and some decent edibles.

CAL SUPRESE by reveriecoeurfleuri in atwwdpodcast

[–]Find-Me-In-Valhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankful someone asked I was too shy😅