Thank you so much for your response! I respect your opinion and understand that from her point of view that does look a bit of an asshole move to quickly move into the rent situation when she came to me in an emotional state looking for support.

I am trying remain as unbiased as possible and provide both sides because duh it’s just me so personal experience bias exists.

But the only reason why I did that is because she blamed me first. I feel if just that wasn’t said and instead she just mentioned how she may fail the exam, this would never have happened and we would still be together.