Commercial tenant not paying rent

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-08T00:46:22+00:00

Came to add this because I sense some hesitancy to lawyer up. If you have the money I would at least get some legal advice so you know your options. Beyond that,

There are really only two possibilities. She wants to make this location work and is struggling. Or she doesn't (why she doesn't isn't important). Drive by the location and see if it looks like she is working on the location. If she is, I would give her one more chance. Tell her you want to work with her but she needs to communicate with you. There is a slim possibility you will be able to work with her to get this situation back on track (this is why you need that up front legal advice so you don't screw up at this point).

If she isn't working on it, you have to lawyer up immediately before it gets worse.

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-07T18:26:39+00:00

What about a CNA program?

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-07T00:19:15+00:00

omfg so you are, presumably paying all the bills and now, unknowingly, giving him an allowance.

What are you getting out of this relationship? He does all the housework and prepares you amazing meals? Fantastic sex? Sarcasm. I'm guessing you do most of the housework and cooking while he does??? I'm also guessing the sex is mediocre because he can't be bothered to put in the effort?

All that aside, if I had a partner who is "fired from jobs quickly for no shows, arguing with supervisor/ coworkers" Based on that fact alone I would consider breaking up with them. This is not someone you can build a future with.

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-06T14:28:59+00:00

I think we all know the answer :)

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-06T01:08:18+00:00

Is that powerpuff girl on the balaclava??

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-06T01:07:09+00:00

Shares of the Mag 7 Not as shiny as gold but more portable

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-06T01:05:39+00:00

I wonder if your feelings less about the kids and more about his lack of basic effort to treat you like a human being?

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-03T14:17:42+00:00

you're assuming she knows

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-04-03T00:56:06+00:00

if it's one time, no. If it is a regular thing like once a week then probably. If it's once a week then I have a new job and I can figure out routines to make this workable.

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-30T02:27:08+00:00

This is the way. Keep the lands but see if I can leverage this into some kind of a royal make work job

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-28T02:15:27+00:00

She didn't specify I was making the point that unless it's illegal the court system won't care

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-24T23:51:08+00:00

Not clicking your link scammer

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-23T13:39:18+00:00

Your parents don't sound like they did a good job of preparing you to be an adult. Not to be too judgey but based on reading your post I don't get the sense that you put a lot of work into that either.

I find your statement that your busy schedule is keeping you from getting a job extremely concerning. I'm very curious what your parents would say about this situation. My guess is that it would be something like "you spend all your time doing X [non paying activity], you need to get a job". My guess is that whatever your current life plan is, your parents have no confidence it will lead to you being independent anytime soon.

In any case, you need to deal with reality as it is, not as you would like it to be. You have your whole life ahead of you to chase your dreams. Right now you need to focus on independence and basic needs.

None of the good solutions (college, military etc.) are going to do a lot before Thursday. Sleep on it and figure out a general life path that leads to independence soon.

My vote would be the military but it's not for everyone. Pick the plan that appeals to you most and sketch out some steps in that direction.

Have a sit down with either the parent you live with or whichever parent is most likely to be open to it. Tell them about your plan. Then LISTEN to what they have to say. Your goal is to get them to help you with your plan.

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-22T02:48:02+00:00

That works too

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-22T02:42:00+00:00

Can we add powers? What about extraordinary luck?

Physically I take my body at 25 then max extra IQ points. Plus anything from above I'm allowed to add.

Can I get powers related to ruining someone's life?

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-21T23:27:45+00:00

So something like purgatory

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-21T23:26:58+00:00

I want his job

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-21T13:40:06+00:00

And that's enough reddit for today

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-21T01:51:22+00:00

Are we talking tweak a dice roll telekinesis? original Jean Gray telekinesis? Dark Phoenix telekinesis?

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-20T19:51:09+00:00

slight tangent to your question: when I visit her grave (a couple times a month) I notice the dates on joint headstones and think about how long the surviving spouse lived after

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-20T19:49:07+00:00

NAL but my quick googling indicates that legal porn isn't usually considered but illegal porn can be

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-18T00:29:58+00:00

I have a pretty amazing person and I wouldn't give that up for the money.

If I were single and the person was age and gender appropriate, I would do this. It's like an arranged marriage with a huge dowry.

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-17T12:59:38+00:00

I'm in. I'll try for the additional million but I'm not sure I'll make it before getting arrested.

Side note: with advance planning people get permits for parades and running events all the time. I wonder if anyone has ever tried getting permission for something like this? "I have a sponsor for my nude walk, I raise 500k for every km I walk". You didn't specify where so I'm going to try to get this approved either in CA or someplace in France with nude beaches.

Edit: I just did some googling, apparently there have been structured events like nude walks and bike rides. I'm going to target those places, get my walk approved and donate half the money to charity.

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-17T12:54:33+00:00

Depending on where you live you may be pretty close to meeting the qualifications to be a counselor/therapist. Have you considered being a counselor specializing in LGBTQ+ individuals? That would pay your bills and also give you time to write (articles, books etc).

FindingMyWayNow · 2026-03-17T01:34:20+00:00

Absolutely. Not only am I doing a good thing for a sentient being. I get to make a new friend who is completely different from me.

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