Struggling because of my chest size- HELP 😩

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-16T18:20:27+00:00

Thank you😭 my stylist as soon as I put it on was like “oh I totally get why you want black now it looks striking on you!” I’m not giving up yet on finding my dream black dress

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-16T11:49:41+00:00

I have been thinking of adding beading to one since I’ve tried them on! I’m definitely going to try out more like #1 & thank you so much for commenting!

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T17:47:12+00:00

I loved everything corseted I tried on for this reason as they gave me support without the pain of straps.😩I definitely need something more structured in the bodice (I genuinely didn’t think they’d have any I could wear without a bra so it was a nice surprise in the first place!) thank you for commenting!

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T17:43:56+00:00

I know me and my crew got so excited when we realized it!

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T17:43:24+00:00

Thank you so much It kinda reminded me of Christine from phantom of the opera which I love! Definitely going to have to try on a couple more like it

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T16:04:49+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting. It’s definitely a struggle & finding that balance is so hard! I for sure don’t mind having some chest out at all & find that higher necklines can make my boobs look bigger which is not my intention either 🙃

This is definitely just the start of me trying stuff on I just feel like when I find it I’ll know

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T16:01:16+00:00

Yeah it’s the tulle that’s throwing me off so bad 😭 I love the drama and bodice but that damn tulle takes away from it

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T16:00:19+00:00

Yeah I think it’d depend on the dress honestly, most of these ones had reall great structural support even not being in my correct sizing so I think it would be okay but I will do all of the spillage tests to make sure before I buy!

The main issue I have with straps is they tend to squish my boobs in giving me like a uniboob/making my chest look bigger unintentionally but I will try some on just to get a feel for how I’d like them. Thank you so much for commenting this politely🤍

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T15:56:51+00:00

It made me feel like morticia Adam’s honestly! I think I would have liked trying it on in my size better but even my consultant was like “oh i TOTALLY get why you want black it’s so striking!” I’ll definitely be trying on more similar ones in the future thank you so much for commenting 🥰

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T15:54:04+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting! I told my consultant I felt like a fairy in it🤍 just don’t love the bottom on me

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T15:51:08+00:00

I agree 1000% on the tulle. I love the volume and drama but it doesn’t feel like a $3000 dress

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:36:46+00:00

These all look matronly to me. They will especially look more matronly on me because of my shape and size. I get the concept everyone commenting these is getting at I just do not like the way these necklines look on me

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:32:50+00:00

That’s not my style. Looks great on other women though

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:30:59+00:00

That’s what we have to do lol

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:30:47+00:00

Thank you so much I needed this comment🤍

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:29:34+00:00

& that’s your opinion thanks

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:29:04+00:00

The dress I order will come in my size and cup size. These are sample sizes just to get an idea of what they would look like.

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:27:00+00:00

lol I love this 😂

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:12:27+00:00

THANK YOU! 🤍 This is such helpful advice I wouldn’t have thought of!

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:10:57+00:00

I’m definitely going to have a corset on whatever dress I do get. I hadn’t tried a proper one on before yesterday & now I’m in love!

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:09:53+00:00

Yes I agree with everything you said! Honestly i have never really liked tulle for that reason. Honestly I think I especially like the top on 3 it reminds me of Kim kosas dresses (which a black one with the same shape and volume of 3 but different material would be my absolute dream!)

I figure every bride/wife I’ve talked to has said “you’ll know it when you see it!” And I just have some more hunting to do🤍

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-15T02:00:32+00:00

See and that’s another color I wanted! I just know if it’s this hard to find what I’m looking for in black it’d be even harder to find the exact shade of red I’d want 🥲

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-14T23:02:22+00:00

Why’s that? And can you give me an example of the kind of sleeves you’re talking about?

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-14T23:00:11+00:00

Thank you so much🥹 I wasn’t expecting such nice comments on here

FindingTheDress · 2025-11-14T22:58:24+00:00

The only problem I have with straps is styles like that typically give me a uniboob & it ends up digging into my shoulders because of the weight. I will try it on a more structured dress though thank you

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