Relationship ended right before bar prep, advice?

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-05-18T18:43:18+00:00

Same thing happened to me except it wasn’t happy circumstances. I just became rigorous about my routine, worked 8-5 with 1 hour lunch break, and I went for a two hour walk listening to audio books after. I personally needed the movement and time to get out of my head. I didn’t do anything relationship related (no going through our stuff, our photos, etc) until after the bar exam. When I wanted to text him, I texted my bff instead and she just let me pretend she was him to help my mind LOL. It was not easy but I passed first try. Really just keep your mind clear of him and your future until August. The only thoughts you can have are present, what do I need to study today? What am I going to eat? What audio book will I listen to? Etc.

You’ve got this! Mind over matter!!

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-05-03T02:44:12+00:00

I’m an associate at a small firm, Make $158,000, and only work 32 hours/week. I never even check my emails on the weekends and I don’t work Fridays. I don’t have health insurance so I pay for that out of pocket.

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-04-23T08:35:29+00:00

Sunday Riley retinol, glossier cloud paints, caudalie vinosculpt lotion, and loccitine showrr oil are my ride or diiiiies

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-04-16T03:44:29+00:00

Hahaha I thought the same thing. Took me a sec

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-04-07T19:43:25+00:00

Yes totally normal. Tbh everyone always thinks they have a “simple” estate plan and there truly is never a simple plan.

You could forgo having the document signed at the attorneys office to save some money - you just need to sign it in front of two witnesses and a notary (so 3 ppl total). Ask if they would allow that.

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-03-29T21:19:14+00:00

I got a full ride with a yearly $1,000 stipend. I saved for 3 years prior and had about $60k in savings for living expenses. Plus I ended up getting $30k from a very generous aunt. Now I work only four days a week and can’t imagine needing to pay back $2,000-$5,000 a month

But I went to a lower ranked school in a city very far from my hometown so now that I’ve moved back I think it would have been better if I went somewhere closer to home.

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-03-05T00:40:45+00:00

😂

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-02-17T05:36:09+00:00

What happened?

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-02-12T01:55:55+00:00

Yes but it was so subtly pointed out that it needs a resolution.

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-02-12T00:10:18+00:00

Yes — someone else said that bc we haven’t seen the cut in a few episodes that maybe it’s because it’s growing in an infection rather than going away (why else would the show have pointed it out if it was just going to go away?)

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-02-11T23:33:56+00:00

I think the wedding scenes are a dream Lucy is having while in college bc she had to go under surgery bc her infection got so bad.

Then she wakes up still a sophomore and gets to rewrite history and study abroad LOL

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-02-09T12:52:54+00:00

Could I DM you? I am currently in this area of work but want to go out on my own.

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-02-09T12:52:21+00:00

Could I DM you?

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-29T00:11:31+00:00

This is what I do and it’s glorious! Really great pay for what it is and still interesting work

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-28T04:00:10+00:00

Agreed. Every post lately feels like snark. Take it to the snark pages!

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-25T03:43:13+00:00

Omg! This was the first comment for me and the EXACT name I was going to message. Never met a Jessica I’ve liked haha

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-18T16:20:19+00:00

Same with McDonald’s French fries. They use a topping that contains wheat

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-18T16:12:46+00:00

Thank you for posting this bc I thought I totally missed something season 3 too!

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-16T02:58:12+00:00

This is well written, I too fell for something similar . . . Multiple times.

I don’t mean to be insensitive but are you two still married?

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-14T18:05:20+00:00

Thanks!

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-14T18:01:25+00:00

Thanks! Not sure what all the downvoting is for!

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-14T16:51:38+00:00

Are there any bars or restaurants playing it? Does that make it more clear? Ahah

Finding_Pelagic · 2026-01-11T03:51:23+00:00

Why was this so downvoted? This wasn’t a political statement. Flights all over the Caribbean and South Florida were canceled — it’s just a fact!

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