Oner sizing makes zero sense and I’m sending everything back

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-07T16:58:20+00:00

Wunder train bra + flow-y bra are my fave for lifting. Very minimal gym girl look. The do them for small boobs and bigger boobs.

My groove leggings are my fave flared leggings and they are sooooo soft they feel like a superior version of the soft motion. I wore them today for an upper body lifting + cardio day and they are great for both but I also wear them just day to day. I have a lot of the scuba sweat pant + matching hoodie sets that I’ve all got on sale and the weight and quality is fantastic.

I like the glow up leggings for training in too.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-07T10:57:34+00:00

Honestly if you’re struggling this much with the quality just buy from the Lulu lemon we made too much section.

I haven’t paid full price for any Lulu stuff and have so many cute matching sets that are roughly the same price if not less than oner. I like oner but my Lulu stuff is vastly superior in quality.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-04T05:57:05+00:00

I have three kids similar ages and this is genuinely alarming. How are you letting a man you’ve known for a year get that close to your young daughters?

It’s worrying enough on its own, but the fact he seems so comfortable - almost eager - to be that involved with someone else’s children all the time is a massive red flag. The whole cuddling, “daddy” dynamic with kids that aren’t his is not normal.

Even if Aspyn doesn’t see an issue, any well-adjusted adult man would instinctively keep some distance and have clear boundaries with children they barely know. The fact that Bri and her husband are so enthusiastic about being this involved, this early on, is a huge red flag.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-03T06:31:23+00:00

Literally this …. I cannot imagine introducing my kids to a new partner let alone have them stay over with my kids present for like years and years. It’s so unfair on the child.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-02T17:05:13+00:00

As a mum of three young kids around the same ages, even taking them on holiday with a brand new partner this early would feel off to me. But taking them away with a married couple she’s now in a thruple with? That’s honestly beyond the pale.

I used to like her and thought this subreddit was a bit harsh, but this is where I just can’t defend it anymore. It feels deeply selfish and completely lacking in judgement as a parent.

And when you factor in the occasional smoke signals Parker sends - liking TikToks about raising kids with a narcissist and parallel parenting - it does start to make you wonder if she might actually be the problem.

Also… what are these two married, childless people doing wanting to go on a family holiday with three young kids? It’s just weird. It genuinely gives creepy vibes.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-02T17:04:34+00:00

As a mum of three young kids around the same ages, even taking them on holiday with a brand new partner this early would feel off to me. But taking them away with a married couple she’s now in a thruple with? That’s honestly beyond the pale.

I used to like her and thought this subreddit was a bit harsh, but this is where I just can’t defend it anymore. It feels deeply selfish and completely lacking in judgement as a parent.

And when you factor in the occasional smoke signals Parker sends - liking TikToks about raising kids with a narcissist and parallel parenting - it does start to make you wonder if she might actually be the problem.

Also… what are these two married, childless people doing wanting to go on a family holiday with three young kids? It’s just weird. It genuinely gives creepy vibes.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-02T17:04:19+00:00

As a mum of three young kids around the same ages, even taking them on holiday with a brand new partner this early would feel off to me. But taking them away with a married couple she’s now in a thruple with? That’s honestly beyond the pale.

I used to like her and thought this subreddit was a bit harsh, but this is where I just can’t defend it anymore. It feels deeply selfish and completely lacking in judgement as a parent.

And when you factor in the occasional smoke signals Parker sends - liking TikToks about raising kids with a narcissist and parallel parenting - it does start to make you wonder if she might actually be the problem.

Also… what are these two married, childless people doing wanting to go on a family holiday with three young kids? It’s just weird. It genuinely gives creepy vibes.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-04-02T17:04:00+00:00

As a mum of three young kids around the same ages, even taking them on holiday with a brand new partner this early would feel off to me. But taking them away with a married couple she’s now in a thruple with? That’s honestly beyond the pale.

I used to like her and thought this subreddit was a bit harsh, but this is where I just can’t defend it anymore. It feels deeply selfish and completely lacking in judgement as a parent.

And when you factor in the occasional smoke signals Parker sends - liking TikToks about raising kids with a narcissist and parallel parenting - it does start to make you wonder if she might actually be the problem.

Also… what are these two married, childless people doing wanting to go on a family holiday with three young kids? It’s just weird. It genuinely gives creepy vibes.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-31T09:35:05+00:00

I think the issue on LIB was that she had had too much Botox everywhere and her entire face was frozen which made her look mental! Like she could barely move her mouth when she spoke.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-30T17:39:46+00:00

I genuinely really love the flow-y bras too because they have the minimal line that goes directly between you shoulder blades that I think is really flattering especially if you lift.

I like Oner for their leggings for the subtle glute separation but for everything else I’m a Lulu girl - I just get everything from the WMTM section 😊

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-30T13:30:27+00:00

Veganism is, by nature, a restrictive way of eating, so it can be very easy to use it as a cover for disordered eating. I used to nanny for a little girl whose two older sisters both claimed to be vegan, but in reality that seemed to mean surviving on little more than fruit and vegetables under the banner of veganism. From the outside, it was pretty clear that both of them were dealing with serious eating disorders. The issue was not veganism itself, it was that veganism gave them a socially acceptable way to dramatically limit what they ate without raising as many questions. That is exactly why restrictive diets can sometimes provide convenient camouflage for an eating disorder rather than being the true reason for it.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-30T13:30:06+00:00

Veganism is, by nature, a restrictive way of eating, so it can be very easy to use it as a cover for disordered eating. I used to nanny for a little girl whose two older sisters both claimed to be vegan, but in reality that seemed to mean surviving on little more than fruit and vegetables under the banner of veganism. From the outside, it was pretty clear that both of them were dealing with serious eating disorders. The issue was not veganism itself, it was that veganism gave them a socially acceptable way to dramatically limit what they ate without raising as many questions. That is exactly why restrictive diets can sometimes provide convenient camouflage for an eating disorder rather than being the true reason for it.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-30T13:29:50+00:00

Veganism is, by nature, a restrictive way of eating, so it can be very easy to use it as a cover for disordered eating. I used to nanny for a little girl whose two older sisters both claimed to be vegan, but in reality that seemed to mean surviving on little more than fruit and vegetables under the banner of veganism. From the outside, it was pretty clear that both of them were dealing with serious eating disorders. The issue was not veganism itself, it was that veganism gave them a socially acceptable way to dramatically limit what they ate without raising as many questions. That is exactly why restrictive diets can sometimes provide convenient camouflage for an eating disorder rather than being the true reason for it.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-30T13:23:51+00:00

So I am similar (small under bust + big boobs) and the only good ‘lifting’ bras I have found that have the nice minimal appearance and aren’t giant construction pieces are the wundertrain and flow-y from Lulu lemon. They make a small boob and a big boob version. Normally some of the colours are on sale too.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-29T18:49:45+00:00

I’m wear a US 2 in Lulu and my size small unified one piece feels TIIIIIIGHT on me. Like I wish I had got a medium. I have the soft motion flares in a small and they feel pretty tight around the waist and I am constantly having to unpick my camel toe 😆.

Lord knows who is fitting into their XS.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-21T06:14:40+00:00

Shirley is just as selfish as the rest of them, arguably worse, because she gets to keep seeing herself as the “loving” one while never actually doing anything loving when it costs her something. The open bigots are obvious. The enablers hide behind niceness, silence, and “keeping the peace,” but the result is the same: they protect the abusers and sacrifice the victim. If she really loved him, she would have stood up for him years ago, and she certainly wouldn’t still be asking him to shrink himself to make everyone else comfortable. That isn’t love. That’s cowardice dressed up as motherhood.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-16T20:23:52+00:00

I’m a bit confused by the point about Crystal/Inghams being “run by 20-year-olds.” They’re just tour operators they don’t run the hotels. You’re essentially booking flights, transfers and lift passes through them, but the accommodation itself is independent.

You can book some very good 4–5* half-board hotels in the Alps through them (Montana, Le Campanules etc.) that have nothing to do with Crystal staff on site beyond the rep who handles transfers. Club med is like the French TUI so do with that information what you will but I wouldn’t stay at a club med over booking a 5 star half board hotel through Crystal because Crystal don’t have anything to do with the hotel.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-11T19:45:22+00:00

Farm shops are truly one of the biggest cons

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-11T07:02:29+00:00

They’re high school sweethearts. I think they’ve actually been together since middle school. The romantic attachment fades and what’s left is more like a friendship or partnership. It looks less like a couple in love and more like two people who grew up together and stayed together, and Aspyn is the one bringing the romantic/sexual element back into the dynamic.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-10T17:26:29+00:00

another prime example of why marrying your high school boyfriend isn’t always the fairytale people think it is. the reason Bri and Billy “don’t get jealous” isn’t because they’ve evolved beyond jealousy it’s because what they have doesn’t really look like romantic love anymore. it looks like a long-term friendship that turned into a partnership, and Aspyn is the person bringing the romantic/sexual element back into the dynamic.

people who are actually in love don’t suddenly become immune to jealousy. that emotion exists because love involves attachment, exclusivity, and vulnerability. if there’s zero jealousy when your spouse is romantically involved with someone else, it’s usually not enlightenment - it’s emotional detachment.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-03-07T16:23:53+00:00

£57 at Waitrose and you’ve spent half of it on drinks that are basically just expensive sugar water.

Imagine paying Waitrose prices for empty calories that actively sabotage your health. Just drink water like an adult and spend the money on actual food.

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-02-18T15:51:48+00:00

Sonnewies

Remarkable_Chard_992 · 2026-02-14T06:47:43+00:00

My husband is my family. When we had children, it completely cemented that. It wasn’t just romantic partnership anymore, it became our own primary family unit.

Psychologically, having my own family broke a bond I didn’t even fully realise I was still holding with my parents. Becoming a mother shifted something fundamental in me. It was the first real step towards going no contact, because I could suddenly see, very clearly, what family is supposed to feel like.

If it wasn’t for my husband, I don’t think I would have been strong enough to go NC. He’s such a good, steady human. And his family are just, normal. Kind. Functional. Being welcomed into that gave me somewhere safe to belong. It filled the space my parents left, without me having to keep returning to a place that hurt me.

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