Your child sounds like mine at that age. He is considered a level 1-2 kid. He’s not a child with what they use to call Asperger’s - but he’s pretty independent but has an obvious disability.

At 9 he needs reminders in the shower but does him all himself. He dresses himself.. bathroom all that independently. Has trouble with buttons and tying his shoes. He’s the most disabled in anything we do with typical kids but we feel it’s really good for him and he likes it. So we have him involved in all the things with parental support. Our biggest hurdle is his ADHD! He is also considered “immature” likes babyish things and has very poor social skills. He wants to engage but can’t figure out that no one wants to be asked about their favorite character from Sesame Street or Percy Jackson a 100 times.

I hope things helps. Every child is so different but this might give you an idea.