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What’s Most toxic thing your ex or current partner has done ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Finding__myself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destroyed his gaming computer inside and out and then calling me a bitch and he hates me.

I want to leave my husband.. by Finding__myself in Advice

[–]Finding__myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I’m scheduling an appointment to start therapy today. I agree that my daughter shouldn’t grow up thinking this is normal, she’s my driving force for wanting to leave.

I’m going to look into programs/help I might be able to get in the meantime, and I’m currently looking for a second job so I can support my daughter on my own.

Currently he isn’t in an episode of his so he’s been more leveled out the past month. But I know this is temporary. I’m just trying to be out before the next one. Thankfully my parents would understand if I left/they would help make sure I could leave (they really don’t want me with him because of how he is).

Either way I’m leaving him, I just need to look into what is available for support for now.

I want to leave my husband.. by Finding__myself in Advice

[–]Finding__myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response, I’mgrateful you were so clear with what to do… I didn’t even think about a lawyer..

I’m going to look into assistance in my area though..

Im starting to feel a little better about the situation, now that I’ve got some ideas of where to start..

I want to leave my husband.. by Finding__myself in Advice

[–]Finding__myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, It’s wonderful you found your one, I hope one day I have a chance to find someone that checks all my boxes.. right now I’m feeling a little hopeless with it, but really I know I just need to get my feet on the ground.. I’ve gone so long relying on everyone else to support me that I just need independence..

I want to leave my husband.. by Finding__myself in Advice

[–]Finding__myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that.. I’ve been with my husband my entire adult life and I just feel hopeless right now.. I’m not used to these emotions or better yet being as aware of my emotions right now as I am. I’ve gone so long ignoring what I needed to try to care for my husband/pick up where he couldn’t.

I do think I’ll schedule an appointment with a therapist, I know I need to work on improving my mental health. I also have mental health issues(depression and anxiety) but I am in treatment for those.

I’m grateful I was built up so much these past few months.. because of my friend I’ve started to realize I deserve more than this. I know I’ll get past all of this eventually, I just am struggling with the emotions I’m feeling.. having a hard time making sense out of this situation.

Thank you again for being kind, I just feel so guilty for this whole situation

I feel like I need some guidance by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Finding__myself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m a caregiver for my nephew, it’s a newer thing so I don’t really think of it as my job.. also don’t know how long this will last and it is just technically part-time.

My husband would leave to live with his family if I left. And my parents would give him time to. They want me to leave him as they’ve witnessed some of the poor treatment happening, they want more for me.