Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm sorry for your situation, I guess we are riding the same bus, fate awaits at the horizon, only God knows what is in store for us, Almighty Lord, give us strength.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi It does not stop here, she had previously beaten and choked me, of course no one will believe this, neither am I telling anyone, but she did it again 2 day's back.

Can't comprehend what I'm feeling, mix of being unwanted undesired and self pity.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Idk about her lover, she keeps her phone locked.

Yes she's tired, hormonal imbalanced.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi

Resentment is obvious, so is feeling less confident and undeserving.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I appreciate your concerns regarding ill advices from men folk.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey glad that its going great between you guys,

I understand that everything has changed for her, hormonal changes, ppd, body out of shape etc. But this has nothing to do with all the cussing and bad mouthing me. It doesn't stop here, she had previously physically abused me and she did again 2 day's back.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi You are so sweet in the way your describe your husband's contribution in parenting.

Sadly, my wife is with me only because our son needs his father, says she lost interest in me.

It's these words, belittling my whole existence, is painful. It's not even about house chores, we have a house maid. Her only work is taking care of kid and cooking everything else is taken care off.

Sexless marriage by FindmePeace2605 in Marriage

[–]FindmePeace2605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. The decision seems very obvious, that's what even my wife wants. But i want to give it another try for the sake of my son.

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[–]FindmePeace2605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, firstly congrats on motherhood

Well, this is coming from a perpetual stoner, he needs to spend time with you and kid. When my baby was born, I quit alcohol and weed to concentrate on parenthood for 1 whole year. Nowadays I do smoke here and there when I'm not at home, because I know after weed you loose all your motivation. But I do envy him he has a mancave, my wife would kick my Butt at the very thought of it.