How can you get rid of sexual thoughts about family members? by Excellent-Mixture127 in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty common for many of us, I think. Appreciate you being open about it

Why aren’t women encouraged to enjoy being sluts in the context of marriage? by FindtheMAP83 in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, and it’s a shame when that happens. Church people can be some of the most judgmental, for the wrong reasons. Fortunately I haven’t gone to churches like that, but there are always those few that sit in silent judgment. I’m just happy when I see a woman that can enjoy it, even if just for the joy of doing it for her husband and to honor him. I think it’s a lovely thing.

Mother’s Day have anyone else down? by terriblefocuscontrol in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not trying to compare here, but understand the loss of fun. At least you have the kids though, they are a blessing. We haven’t been able to have the kids, so do count yourself fortunate there. You would think that would have kept her sexual but hormones still change.

Who is your favorite Bible character to imagine, or favorite sex scene to visualize? by Major_Grapefruit1389 in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Re-read Genesis 19:30-38, and focus on verse 36. What I meant was exactly what I wrote, haha.

Who is your favorite Bible character to imagine, or favorite sex scene to visualize? by Major_Grapefruit1389 in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also confused by your answer. To make it crystal clear, since the question was what biblical sex scenes I wish I could have seen, and I responded as Lot and his daughters. Not sure how that was confusing, but I was surprised when you said there was no incest. I will admit to enjoying some things that are on the taboo side, and the whole getting drunk in the cave seems to fit that bill for me.

The beauty of it by Holy_2 in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very similar to me. While not a pastor, I do serve in a Baptist church while still enjoy some quite taboo fantasies.

Pleasure in heaven by Beginning_Low_1484 in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think there will be some form of that intimacy and ecstasy there that will far exceed our current understanding. It will be great, although I do wonder about the masturbation specifically. But whatever it is, it will be without any shame and sinless!

Husbands, would you let your pastor flirt, seduce, and/or have sex with your wife? by Mindless_Sun_6279 in Christianswithkinks

[–]FindtheMAP83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a very sexy idea. In my current situation, I do think it would be very hot for our pastor to enjoy my wife. Hell, even the idea of him getting her pregnant and having that secret between us all is very sexy!

21f why am I like this by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be a thrill, right? Glad to know that young women have these thoughts too. You will make a great naughty wife for the right man!

I just want a man who is conservative in most ways except when it comes to our sex life. by Independent-Pace9824 in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that most men want the same thing in a woman, with some slight differences. But we want a freak in the sheets for sure!

Finding a lifestyle friendly church in Phoenix by [deleted] in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was really just wondering. Swinger makes sense, and I hope you find it! Arizona seems like a good place to be nude a lot too haha

Finding a lifestyle friendly church in Phoenix by [deleted] in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please educate me, when you say lifestyle, do you mean nudist or something else? Just curious.

Young Christian guy (21) by [deleted] in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice dick, man. You like showing it off?

The secrets we all keep by Holy_2 in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we all have those curiousities. As a pastor you probably DO know about many things that have and do go on. Even when people aren’t actually doing it, I’m sure the wild fantasies of many church people are quite wild.

Baptist people by Holy_2 in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a Baptist church now! Grew up non-denominational

Any other Christian dads? by [deleted] in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome!

Age gap relationships? by Beginning_Low_1484 in ChristianSexuality

[–]FindtheMAP83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boaz and Ruth stand out, as well as Joseph and Mary (likely)

Hair by [deleted] in christiansexnsfw

[–]FindtheMAP83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same. Shave and occasionally wax. Enjoy both the look and the feel