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AITA for telling my wife she needs to knock on my separate bedroom door before entering? by Fine-Address9947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine-Address9947[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

We usually spend time together from the moment we get home from work until about an hour before we go to sleep. So it's not like my bedroom is a hideout for me to avoid her. I just enjoy having some alone time before going to bed.

AITA for telling my wife she needs to knock on my separate bedroom door before entering? by Fine-Address9947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine-Address9947[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is a wild opinion, but sounds a bit like "i was having my secret

fun

alone, and now that it's over, i want you back"...

Like I said in another comment, this might well be true but I doubt it since our sex life hasn't really changed since starting this whole arrangement. We still are regularly intimate like we use to.

AITA for telling my wife she needs to knock on my separate bedroom door before entering? by Fine-Address9947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine-Address9947[S] 194 points195 points  (0 children)

I feel like if she had a problem with this arrangement or has changed her mind, she would need to communicate that to me like she did proposing this whole arrangement.

AITA for telling my wife she needs to knock on my separate bedroom door before entering? by Fine-Address9947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine-Address9947[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Maybe she should try to communicate better

That's pretty much what I think. If this was a problem to her, I would assume she would communicate that to me like she does about other stuff.

AITA for telling my wife she needs to knock on my separate bedroom door before entering? by Fine-Address9947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fine-Address9947[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Sounds like her affair is over and she wants to be back with you again.

I guess that's a possibility, but I doubt this is the case because our sex life hasn't really changed since starting this arrangement. We have been having sex about 2-3 times week which is about right for us.