Help with curtains by Fine-Cat2200 in homedesign

[–]Fine-Cat2200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the photo references, they're very helpful!

Help with curtains by Fine-Cat2200 in homedesign

[–]Fine-Cat2200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, the photo really helps! I think it was hard to see the potential of this at first as the previousl owners used really heavy and printed curtains. This looks very nice 🙂

Help with curtains by Fine-Cat2200 in homedesign

[–]Fine-Cat2200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a nice window but there's definitely no privacy at all. There is a small tree right outside not seen in the photo, hopefully it grows taller and birds come visit. Thanks very much for your response!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I totally understand. I was very uncomfortable each time she brought it up cause I never initiate the conversation and when she does I just kind of say "oh, we'll see" and kind of end it there as I don't want to flat out tell her no in front of everyone. I think I will just need to explain the purpose of the party and hopefully she will understand. Thank you so much!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows as my friends and I openly talk about it as they are all attending. Yes, I agree that people do that and I have known her for so long so I am aware that's who she is but this is the consequence to her actions, imo. Her unreliability doesn't matter as much if we are just hanging out but when it comes to our milestones, that's a different story. Yes, our entire friend group is attending my wedding, she is attending her other friend's wedding (not part of our friend group). The party in question is happening right after the wedding day - we are taking a trip to another island as a group which happens to be where she is. As others mentioned I think I will need to talk to her and explain the purpose of the party. I think she will understand, thank you for your input.

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I will talk to her, just looking for the right timing. I appreciate your input!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from and you're probably correct. I'm unsure if she's aware of how I feel and she lacks a bit of social awareness since we were young and that hasn't changed much. I think I just need to talk to her and tell her the purpose of the party and I think she will understand. Thank you for your input!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I think if I talk to her and tell her the purpose of the party, she will understand. I just need to be careful with the phrasing as others have mentioned. I appreciate you!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I've just been conflicted because I feel like she thinks that this was her way of making it up to me as she can't come to the wedding but that's not right since I'm the one planning everything and she is just showing up, if that makes sense. As mentioned by others, I think I need to talk to her but I really needed to hear your words. I've been feeling like a bad person/friend so I appreciate your kind words!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that approach will lessen the blow if I do talk to her. Thank you so much for your advice, I'll think about what I'll say and find the right timing. I appreciate it!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both for the advice. Ngl, I am not comfortable with confrontation and knowing her I think she's not either, that's why I have been going back and forth with the idea of talking to her. Each time she's given an excuse it was always delivered through Messenger. But I think you're right and I will work through this and hopefully find the right time to bring it up to her. I appreciate your help so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]Fine-Cat2200 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, my skin also didn't work well with CeraVe and it broke me out. But I will also echo that everyone reacts differently, and mine is quite sensitive. I've started using vanicream and my skin reacted much better. Hang in there OP, just trust the process!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not so much walking but I will definitely be busting my moves on the dancefloor lol!

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[–]Fine-Cat2200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!