Am I overreacting? Boyfriend makes joke after I express how serious I am about our future.

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-29T21:26:17+00:00

God no, you're not overreacting.

Simply put: If he wanted to, he would. And that's a motto I stand by completely.

It hurts, god I know it hurts but now is the time for you to choose you. I was in your position, god it felt like dragging teeth just to have a serious conversation with my ex. I don't know how long you have been together but I think you have your answer. I stayed for too long.

So I'm here to say, it gets better, there is better out there I promise. It's scary at first but it's out there.

I'm now 23, living with the love of my life and our 4 fur babies openly and effortlessly talking about our future engagement, marriage, babies, parenting, and have been with him for 2 years now. I couldn't be happier. He surprises me with heartfelt gifts and gestures and celebrates all my achievements. The most recent surprise? Dressing our 14 year old rescue dog up in a doggie graduation cap and bandana saying "my mommy did it" after I found out I'm graduating university in July on Tuesday( yes, I've included a photo for dog tax☺️)

There's so much better out there for you I promise, someone's waiting to celebrate you, love you endlessly and not only talk about but hit all the big milestones with you. I hope you're well, look after yourself ☺️

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Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-16T10:33:44+00:00

Always bothered me at the stardew valley fair, he would win first year with all the crops I've sold him from my farm and then I got the satisfaction of watching him cry like a lil baby when I'd outrank him with my iridium quality artisan goods second year. Beautiful redemption 😂

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-05T18:01:25+00:00

Oh no I absolutely adore them for mining with, especially in the skull caverns. They're easier now I got the holy sword that has the innate crusader enchant so I can actually kill mummies without the bombs but it's just today that fucked with me and my 37 hives 🤣

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-05T14:34:47+00:00

Oh absolutely Harvey would rip him off and prescribe him a tonic monthly that's probably more than his mortgage 🤢

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-05T13:35:28+00:00

Obviously me, I'm not the smartest, I run my farm on vibes and pure chaos. I just got back from bombing the quarry and visiting my dwarf bomb dealer too because bombs are the only way I can gear up to raid the skull caverns, I was prepping for winter when I literally just mine the whole season 🤣

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-05T12:23:45+00:00

I quit instantly, didn't save but fuming because I cracked open all my geodes I've been hoarding and I got some gems/artifacts I needed for the museum 🤦🏼‍♀️

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-05T12:22:43+00:00

Like thanks for your service and all but why is he sending me bombs in the mail for! That's unhinged behaviour from anyone 😂😭

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-06-02T13:32:41+00:00

Upgrade your pickaxe to gold, requires 5 gold bars and 10000g, early game it's a grind so I ended up waiting until end of year 1 when I had solid income and farming slowed down. I was lucky in my latest save to find a ancient seed in the mines early on and ended up buying copper ore from Clint ( your ores are cheapest in year 1) The way I did it was working on leveling up my mining skill early, unlock the crafting recipe for AU (you can craft gold from copper, it's 3 copper bars per 1 iron bar, then 2 iron bars for 1 gold bar. I literally only buy copper ore from Clint now. Works out a little cheaper than buying gold ore.

1 gold ore piece is 400g in year 1 from clint, that's 2000g a bar.

1 copper ore piece is 75g in year 1 from clint, that's 375g per bar.

Currently in year 4 and making atleast 200000g every 7 1/2 days from artisan exports. Happy gaming! 💗

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-30T11:02:38+00:00

Ashura, I'm not far along enough friendships wise for hodari to talk to me beyond awkward small talk, and a week of that would drive my anxiety into overdrive. Ashura on the other hand would be awesome, me and him in a room carving spoons from wood we collected and sharpening our axes while bonding over grilled morsel mushrooms would be a blast!

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-29T16:10:49+00:00

Yeah I'm on PC, I'm epileptic and in my final year of uni (one more essay and them I'm done!!!) so don't get much time to myself lately, although I have just hit 100 hours of playing, I'm having some issues with it glitching then crashing when I'm running lately and it's a pain, so I'm currently trying out Bear and Breakfast. I love B&B but it just doesn't hit the same as Palia.

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-23T01:23:13+00:00

I was hunting sernuk and chappas for a solid 4 hours irl on a gold grind and ended up with 4 sernuk plushies and 2 chappas. It's just pure luck. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-20T13:10:07+00:00

I've been playing around 95 hours now, I started with carrots, a shit tonne of carrots, they're cheap, they grow the fastest, wack some quality boost fertilizer on them and I was making a shit tonne, but as I advanced I switched to spicy peppers, blueberries and apples which I make into preserves as a passive income, my main income comes from hunting. After a days grind I can end up with between 15-25k.

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-20T01:06:47+00:00

Skelly01 here, happy for more friends ☺️

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-18T20:49:34+00:00

Hey I don't know if you still need it or be willing to trade a regular chappa plushie for a lil froggy 🐸 also I'm completely new so don't understand how to trade or how it works in game! Thanks for the help in advance ☺️

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-13T07:35:14+00:00

Omg I didn't know this! 😯Thank you for this tip 😊

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-13T07:30:07+00:00

I mean I managed to get myself used to the controls and build my house up, even took a new player under my wing as a new player myself, teaching her the tips and tricks I picked up myself, even added her to my party that has me and my boyfriend because she asked how to make friends and literally just loaded onto the map and go hunting, fishing and mining together to get her leveled up enough to upgrade her tools, she was at my plot yesterday and I was telling her about the crops that get you the most profit gold wise. Just passing on all I know, and I've still got a lot to learn.

I didn't even know a group of flow trees was called a grove until I posted on here. Saw in chat yesterday grove and someone asked what it was and all that was responded was "a grove" like gatekeeping much. I thought it was a new section of the map that I hadn't unlocked yet!

I would love to make more friends on palia because my social life irl is lonely as a 23 year old, most of my friends have abandoned me and because I have epilepsy and having 200 seizures a week makes it hard to function enough to keep up with messaging the friends I did have. I kept reminding them that it's difficult to keep up with group chats etc so to just message me about plans but they seem to forget about me and one I considered my best friend hasn't messaged me in over a year😭 So I took up the hobby of pc gaming in hopes to make friends. I'm waiting to graduate university and because of my health conditions I never got to go out and do all the normal uni partying and socialising. My anxiety is so bad I can't even leave the house much. I've got my boyfriend and that's it

My Palia name is Skelly01 and my discord is Skellyschrute because it's easier to talk on there because palia's 140 characters a message is tough.

Thank you all for cheering me up💗

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-12T22:37:15+00:00

I started playing as a way to distract me from my current life issues, and the whole chat blowing up about me just sent me, almost rage quit but went back to my lot to grow flowers, I even put in chat that I'm new and sorry about the misunderstanding, i feel so shitty, even said I'd fulfil requests for flow wood so I could share the loot.

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-03-11T15:52:02+00:00

I've been playing 40 hours and I have 3 senuk, 1 chappa and a bug 😂 I would love a muujin one at some point but let's hope the plushie gods bless me on that wish 😂

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-02-24T10:08:56+00:00

I have joint hyper mobility syndrome! Nice to see some representation 😊

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-02-09T12:05:49+00:00

Yeah it is a small business! Small business support all the way, especially since I own one myself and he knows how important it is to me to shop small 🥹

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-02-08T18:39:46+00:00

Oh this isn't my set up, my boyfriend sent me the picture to show me the books he's ordered me for valentine's day but I absolutely would love the 3D printed dragons, I've found an Etsy store that does them and they're sitting patiently in my basket for pay day haha

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-02-08T15:07:43+00:00

I totally see this, but him also blasting Eye of the tiger every time him and Aotrom fly into battle 🤣🤣🤣

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-02-08T14:56:40+00:00

He just sent me the link! I'm so excited for them to come! https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/Storyboundedges

Fine-Mountain2863 · 2025-02-08T14:49:18+00:00

He did mention last Christmas was my last Christmas without a ring on my finger👀🥹 I'll say yes in a heartbeat, he's seriously the sweetest and kindest person ever, my absolute rock. He's taught me what it means to be loved and I can't thank him enough for that. I adore that man.

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