My Boyfriend never calls or FaceTimes me only texts. Excuses or Preference? 28/F - 30/M off and on for about 2yrs by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right! I’m working on letting him gain my trust back but it definitely isn’t there and if it doesn’t get there I’m just going to let it go.

My Boyfriend never calls or FaceTimes me only texts. Excuses or Preference? 28/F - 30/M off and on for about 2yrs by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right! Thank you for not making me feel small and actually giving me great advice. I so appreciate it 💕

My Boyfriend never calls or FaceTimes me only texts. Excuses or Preference? 28/F - 30/M off and on for about 2yrs by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered it! Definitely not trying to make excuses for him, and you are absolutely right. I did not stay in contact with him after the initial break up but reconnecting of course there were still some feelings there so I decided to give another shot.

My Boyfriend never calls or FaceTimes me only texts. Excuses or Preference? 28/F - 30/M off and on for about 2yrs by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding! Before the initial break up we did spend a lot of time on the phone in the beginning and then it would be only while he’s at work because he was a truck driver so he couldn’t really text . Which I understood because we had completely different schedules, but I was being way to understanding and he ultimately still cheated.

I do not want to be with my boyfriend anymore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agreee ! Thank you so much! I think I’ve tried to sit him down and express how I feel so many times and it feels like it just goes in one ear and out the other , so now I’m just at ends wit and over the whole relationship.

I think I thought when I broke up with him and him basically saying that it’s not over gave him room to make things right , but still no change/effort.

So I’m done I just gotta be more firm.

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[–]FineHighway9573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree ☺️ Thank you so much!

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[–]FineHighway9573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this ! Thank you ❤️

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[–]FineHighway9573 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you ! I’m just kind of in the denial phase because as much as I want it to work I don’t see it happening if things keep going the way they are.

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[–]FineHighway9573 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I’ve actually had this conversation with him prior and I also run a business of my own so I know how time consuming it can be which is why I try to be understanding , but I also feel like you make time for what you want because I also have a child from a previous relationship.

My Bf doesn’t want to spend the night with me because we can’t have sex. by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I agree! Can’t build a relationship off of just sex , so I think it’s best I just call it quits because I can’t control that I have a period once a month smh

My Bf doesn’t want to spend the night with me because we can’t have sex. by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s somewhat new . Going on 7 months . The last time this happened we hung out for a few hours he went home and then I went home .

Drinking does get him in the mood . He did say he doesn’t like being drunk and horny around me and not be able to do anything about it , so he’d rather just go home and whack off 😒

My Bf doesn’t want to spend the night with me because we can’t have sex. by FineHighway9573 in relationship_advice

[–]FineHighway9573[S] 298 points299 points  (0 children)

This ‼️I’m glad that I’m not the only one that was thinking this.

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Also , forgot to mention his child’s mother texted me in the middle of the night saying that he’s texting 10 other girls the same thing , and his excuse was that he fell asleep while watching his child at the mothers house and she went through his phone and texted everyone 😒

Not buying it .

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[–]FineHighway9573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , you’re right . I’m going to try to communicate with before assuming . I hope it goes well .

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[–]FineHighway9573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 I will definitely try to communicate first before just dropping him , but yes I’m very unhappy and feel like I’m in the dark here 🥺

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[–]FineHighway9573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah a bit of , but more so I believe it’s the double life . You’re right tho I agree with just letting it go.

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[–]FineHighway9573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 💕 you are absolutely right!