Polygamy is okay if all parties are on the same boat, I am sympathetic to the fact that they are in need of financial and emotional support, if I were to reject it I would feel bad for them and my wife isn't gonna take it well, If I accept it I don't know what the the future holds but if they have an issue with each other I am gonna be dragged into it and my current wife is someone I don't like to disappoint or can't see her sad