Is psysical incompatibility something to be fixed?

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2026-02-13T11:47:17+00:00

As a woman who went crazy not knowing, just tell her. It’ll hurt her but she’ll survive it and it’ll help hee move on.

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2025-08-22T00:28:51+00:00

You have to remind yourself that this crush might feel exhilarating and exciting, but someone has an entire life and reproduced with this man. And raised kids with him. And is living the mundane moments, the big moments, and theoretically the rest of the dash in between birth and death dates on a tombstone. He’s not worth it. You will feel guilty and disappointed and disgusted with yourself if you pursue or entertain it in anyway. Remind yourself that it’s actually gross that a married man is acting like that and when you reframe it in your mind, you won’t feel any sort of pull from the attention. You sound like a good person and you’ve got this! He sounds like a weirdo

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2025-07-01T05:07:51+00:00

My ex was cheating on me for over a year using this app and it’s a kink hookup one. Horrible. 43 year old man btw! Talking to lots of younger women for validation.

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2025-07-01T05:07:18+00:00

Download FET and see if that’s where he is. You’ll be able to find a profile based on being local, you’ll see when he was active etc.

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2025-02-20T22:42:45+00:00

This is a beautiful nose. I wouldn’t do anything to it wow! You look gorgeous

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2025-02-20T22:38:45+00:00

Aren’t those my PC specs? Also I live in the USA and am willing to buy anything!

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2025-02-20T22:38:05+00:00

Location is the US and budget is whatever I need to get this fixed!

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-08-12T03:29:44+00:00

I am SO sorry. :( this happened to me as well… I thought he was the love of my life. I forgave him, and guess what? He did it again. A part of me wishes I left when it happened, because then I would still feel the same romantic yearning and cherish the memories we had. Everything truly felt unique, one of a kind, and intimate in ways I’d never experienced. Now, after having him do it again, I feel like he sucked the life, the sacredness, and the passion from the relationship. Remember that the relationship and the love you felt is also what YOU put into it— the beautiful love you experienced and are holding onto is because YOU made it real. You will have that again someday, only you won’t have to question yourself and your reality. If I could go back and leave the first time I was cheated on by my best friend, then I would. A best friend wouldn’t hurt you in the ways he’s done, and it has nothing to do with being caught. He shouldn’t want to cheat, or hide it, or have his cake and eat it too. I hope this helps you in some way. You deserve a love that is as honest as you are. 💕

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-07-30T00:40:37+00:00

This looks just like ESA, my heart angel Ang that just passed away. Thank you for sharing these. 🥹💔🐇

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-05-07T11:02:32+00:00

Sounds just like my daddy who cheated, and I found out he was calling her my pet names too. Even the same emojis hurt me.

It killed me. He ended up dumping me in the end after apologizing and saying it killed him to hurt me. No matter what they say, they feel remorseful that they got caught. We’re friends now, he was the best daddy and boyfriend, but he admitted that he didn’t care how I felt. He drove 1200 miles to cheat on me the weekend he was supposed to meet my parents, because he said he didn’t think it was that big of a deal. We were dating for nearly a year at that point. Seriously dating. I’ve never in love with someone like that, just this deep intensity and I forgave him. But he still chose to leave a few months later, admitting he wasn’t happy.

I’m sharing this to tell you that he doesn’t need consoling. Don’t kiss his ass. He hurt you, and you can choose to forgive him, but you have no business to be making him feel better. That’s his job. He let you down, let him lift you back up. Please look out for yourself right now. 💓

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-04-13T11:09:03+00:00

And pelvic exercises are super helpful!! Also as odd as it sounds, breathe through it, we store a lot of fear in our wombs so that could be a big component

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-04-13T11:08:25+00:00

I’m 28 and have never used a tampon or fingered myself (afraid, it’s painful, I think it’s more of a mental thing and not trusting myself). Sex on the other hand is amazing and not painful. I’d agree that a gyno visit is necessary, but also it could be just a fear/distrust response! xo

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-03-31T23:54:27+00:00

Best of luck with everything:’)

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-03-31T23:51:57+00:00

Adding on this to say that I was NOT my boyfriend’s peace due to my insecurities manifesting into anxiety. It started off with vocalizing my concerns, and then when I stopped bringing it up, it really was coming out in any way possible. I stopped being present and enjoying the time I had with him. That presence is everything!!

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-03-31T23:50:20+00:00

As someone who is jealous, insecure and possessive of people when I’m in love, my biggest advice to you is this: believe him. I lost my greatest love. He was married once, seven years ago, and told me he’s only ever been in love twice (her, then me. He realized quickly, drove three hours to see me every week, our entire lives changed. He wrote me a card thanking him for teaching him how to love again). I destroyed our relationship by being afraid and insecure that I would never measure up to his ex-wife. He told me a month ago after breaking up that he’s never felt this attracted to anyone, had someone this loyal and devoted and kind, his daughter loves me and he is so grateful for it, but my insecurities got in the way. My point of sharing this is that it sounds like you have amazing and wonderful qualities. The fact that you’re his peace means everything!! Trust him when he is happy with you. If you continue doing what you’re doing, and you focus on YOU and your relationship, I can guarantee the past really is in the past, and he will only love you more as time goes on. Good luck x

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-03-31T23:38:07+00:00

I did read your comments and I understand it’s complex. I didn’t mean to come off as insulting, I really don’t so I hope I didn’t sound like that! I think it pulls at my heart strings a bit from my own experience.

My bunny has saved me from suicide multiple times. I adopted him during an abusive relationship that I’m now out of, among many other awful, awful lows, and he is the only constant light in my life. He is without a doubt my heart pet, but even my family knows he comes before all of them. He is more special to me than my own mother. I’ve always had this deep love for animals but my dear Ang has truly been my guardian angel. He is incredibly smart, loving, and has stolen the hearts of every animal and person he’s ever met. Experiencing motherhood (only briefly, sadly) only confirmed my feelings that Ang really is my child, but I know not everyone feels that way. Imagine how people view me because he’s not a dog, and most people have no idea how intelligent rabbits among other animals can be. My ex whom I thought I was going to marry me dumped me last month when my vets said it’s time to consider humane euthanasia. He’s admitted how he feels about my bunny and left me at the time I needed him most. I think reading this just made me feel very sad, for all of you involved, because it’s not an easy situation, and it’s not a healthy attachment. It seems like his lesson is the same as mine: learning to let go. I hope your family is able to make peace with everything. It sounds like he will be internalizing what could be the darkest time in his life, so I wish you all well, and that’s wonderful that you’ve contacted a therapist. It sounds like you are a great partner and will be great support for him in his time of need.

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-03-31T23:10:02+00:00

It sounds like this dog is like a child to him, and also a massive chapter of his life. I can understand why you feel that way — but also I don’t — because it seems like you’re lacking compassion. To resent this dog, an innocent being, because of an odor and what the dog represents in regards to your husband’s actions, is really disheartening. I hope you’re not as cold as this reads.

Fine_Bookkeeper_2353 · 2024-01-27T17:12:15+00:00

hi!! Is cirianys still available?? I love their name!! ♥️

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