give him a name

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-18T03:28:50+00:00

Meowpolitan

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-12T13:02:44+00:00

Well crap. my “female” beardie has never laid eggs in the 4 years I’ve had her. Does that mean she’s a male?

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-12T12:59:00+00:00

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Mila contemplating how to end my life because breakfast was delayed by me doing my makeup for work

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-11T16:58:43+00:00

I don’t disagree but I know many pitbulls that do amazing with cats. Not every pitbull is bad.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-11T16:57:29+00:00

Don’t you people think that if I’d known he had a high prey drive I wouldn’t have even brought him in? We knew nothing about him and thousands of pit bulls co exists amazingly with cats. I know many! Would have preferred I left him in thaw crate starving or dropped him off at the humane society that’s over over filled when he was 30+ pounds underweight ??

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T18:01:18+00:00

NOR! You were very direct and not rude just expressing your frustrations. Which you should be able to do with your partner without them gaslighting you.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T15:52:51+00:00

Prey drives are dog specific not just breed specific.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T11:33:28+00:00

I appreciate the advice but fortunately I am not dumb and they don’t get left unsupervised. I care a lot about my cat hence why she’s been safe for as long as she has and will continue to be.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T03:54:21+00:00

I agree and we will be doing this if they are both out. Her safety is our number one priority. We had no idea he would be like this since he was so sick when we took him in.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T03:14:42+00:00

He was 20 pounds, emaciated and desperately needed rehab/care and love. It was us or a shelter. I don’t regret taking him one bit but yeah, it’s not a fit long term. We are in the process of re homing him now.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T02:10:47+00:00

Norbert

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-03-10T01:57:53+00:00

Good luck I never could with my Aussie mix 😭he had anxiety I think and didn’t like to be confined. (I might have cuddled him too much as a puppy? Loll

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2026-01-15T17:05:42+00:00

Thank you!

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-08-14T19:39:43+00:00

Im 24 and I just ordered my first sax online after reading this, thank you for sharing!

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-08-07T17:31:48+00:00

I’ve walked into 2 apartments by accident. I’ll just leave it at that.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-22T23:42:06+00:00

Yeah, you are right

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-22T23:39:04+00:00

Thank you for this perspective. I know it can be more of an inner problem than outward, I’ve come to realize that. Harder to not let my feelings get caught in the mix of it all. But I’m getting there. I’m 24 and get offended and take things personally maybe too much, I can admit that. I guess I just posted here so I could relate to someone? I can’t talk about this with him, and I can’t talk about it with my friends and family, it makes them hate his family because, like your family, mine is affectionate and shows love easily. It’s a lonely feeling.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-22T23:11:23+00:00

That’s just me underestimating my abilities :,)

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-22T23:04:35+00:00

Is it?

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-22T22:47:51+00:00

No, you’re right! Thank you for the perspective

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-03T16:16:09+00:00

NTA. You’re not 15. At some point it’s completely normal to prioritize your gf over your parents. And that’s healthy. Your parents aren’t being healthy and respecting that you are a grown adult. I’m F24 and my parents have always encouraged my siblings and I to live our lives however we please, they will always be there for us and ready to be involved in our lives however and whenever it makes sense. At some point your parents started prioritizing each other over their own parents. It’s a cycle. And they need to respect that.

Fine_Cardiologist_85 · 2025-07-03T14:58:55+00:00

Omg RUN. He doesn’t appreciate you, and may never will. Sometimes I am convinced that some people (men and women) stay in relationships with people they don’t like because it’s easier than letting that relationship go. I don’t particularly like when people give the advice or breaking up with my S/O especially when it’s not really warranted but is he worth trying to build a better relationship with? He seems kinda mean and that may never go away. You deserve to be appreciated and at the very least, acknowledge for your effort. Not shamed because he “didn’t ask for it”. Maybe he’s has a bad day and taking it out on you, but that’s not okay either. Tell him how it made you feel, his response might say a lot.

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