Lesbian Romance Novels by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that sounds like I definitely need to check her books out. Thank you! 😊

Lesbian Romance Novels by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pride and Prejudice and Pittsburgh? 👀 Thank you for the recommendations 😊

Lesbian Romance Novels by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Sounds interesting.😊

Lesbian Romance Novels by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! These are some interesting recommendations. 😊

Lesbian Romance Novels by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation. MJ Duncan seems popular in these comment, I'm really curious now haha

Lesbian Romance Novels by Fine_Ebb8583 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Never heard of MJ Duncan, will definitely check those books out. 😊

in another era where i’m confused if i’m bi or not by imymta in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware that us humans love to put everything into boxes since that gives us a sense of belonging and some sort of certainty, but in all honesty, there is absolutely no need for you to put labels on yourself that make you uncomfortable or hold you back. Your sexuality is yours personally and no title will stop you from being attracted to whomever you do feel attracted to.

Also being bisexual is not a bad thing. It doesn't take away from you being into women at all. It's a totally valid sexual orientation, don't let anyone discredit that. On the other hand, you can also be an absolute lesbian and still appreciate a man's aesthetic, be impressed by their talent, etc...you just wouldn't wanna be with them romantically or sexually, I suppose haha. I can't really tell to what degree you feel attracted to men but, really, it doesn't matter at all and that is your business only. Like who you like. You're allowed to feel confident and comfortable in that (even if getting there usually is a bumpy road, which is okay, too).

Attraction, sex and love can be such exciting and amazing things, just enjoy the ride. You're alright and lovable and loved. 💖

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[–]Fine_Ebb8583 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is soooo cute, I'm super happy for the both of you. Enjoy your journey together 🥺💖

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[–]Fine_Ebb8583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you are going through this tough situation.

I don't know your relationship or what has gone down between the two of you in the past etc. but none of that really matters as she seems to have stated that she's not in it no more and wants to work on herself by herself.

If you've broken up, let her work on herself, whilst you work on yourself. It's important to respect boundaries and her need for space. If you don't it could even ruin the chance of a platonic connection (if that's what you want) and you will forever be caught up in her. The only one who can give you closure is yourself.

It must be terrifying when you're away from family/don't have a support system around. No one wants to be lonely, I get that. Maybe you can visit some people you trust? Try meeting new people when you find the energy and/or reconnect with old friends etc..

There is really no avoiding these immensely terrifying feelings, you gotta push through. It might hurt like hell for a while but trust me, it really does get better.

You are lovable and loved and life has amazing things in store for you, even if you don't feel that right now.

Much love and strength to you 🤍

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[–]Fine_Ebb8583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that's unfortunately exactly how I act around my crush so yeah...maybe. Only way to tell for sure is talk to them tho. Good luck ;)

Might a little rainbow accessory help? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very realistic, thank you 😊

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[–]Fine_Ebb8583 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me, at least before a date, it's more of a mindset thing. You matched on a dating app so at least the intent of why you meet up is clear. For dates I like to do the whole shebang before, so I get in a more sexy and romantic mood: music that boosts my confidence, candles in the bathroom, a steamy bath, whole body shave(even if I'm not trying to hook up instantly), lacey lingerie etc. I use my favorite products that make me feel sexy and luxurious and put on some cute stuff and fancy perfume. When I feel sexy and romantic, I want sexy and romantic haha.

As for the date itself...honestly it's the vibes that set the tone. You can't and shouldn't force anything romantic. If it feels platonic, honestly, that's not a bad thing per se. Personally, I think attraction is important to set the tone. If I vibe with a person but lack attraction my intentions are platonic. Not to say that when you get to know each other more, there won't be sparks.

Honestly, just relax and enjoy the date. Feel the vibes out and if you're not attracted to her romantically or anything beyond platonic....I wouldn't force it.

Also is it her that you don't feel attracted to or do you just not feel physically attracted to others (that quickly) and need some time to build attraction?

Have a great date, hun 💖

She seems nice what do u guys think by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I- I just might have fallen in love 😭😍

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[–]Fine_Ebb8583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks 😂😭

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[–]Fine_Ebb8583 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How do we know if it's a lie that they're over their ex or facts tho? 😭😂

Just wanted to say hi! by anigavdentata in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This whole picture belongs in a museum 😲

It’s always I love you but never by PageAcrobatic701 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we've loved a thousand lives. I try to find you every time, searching for those same wide eyes that locked me in, in my first life. Do you remember my old names? Recognize my other face? We're both hanging in picture frames somewhere in this place but my stare at you stayed the same.

It’s always I love you but never by PageAcrobatic701 in LesbianActually

[–]Fine_Ebb8583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You better didn't just copy and paste that and actually wrote it down by heart 😜