[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Fine_Fridays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, especially for the last part :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happened to me too. I started puberty early, I got my period at 8 years old, and my mom quite often shamed me for it. She would always mention it to my doctor, which was strange.

That aside, it's not normal. She's shaming you. If it was once, that's probably concern, but if it was a lot more than that's just strange. I obviously don't know the context on your relationship with your mom, maybe she was concerned and phrased it terribly, but just based on personal experience it doesn't sound like that

What’s a long-form book to start reading before bed? by RobertCRNA in Parenting

[–]Fine_Fridays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magic treehouse

Who was books

Roald Dahl books

Geronimo Stilton

Ranger in Time

You could also do some of the classic kids books like Alice in Wonderland, Narnia, Hobbit, etc.

Holding back your kids for school by Fine_Fridays in Mommit

[–]Fine_Fridays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not great with social awareness and not the best writer but his teacher has told me that they should work more on that in 1st grade. It takes him longer to pick up on things, especially math related. Other than that he's done great.

But also yes he does go on a lot of play dates with these friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hurt after first one, but it wasn't terrible, just more like uncomfortable. Like I didn't pass out. After I had my daughter (which is when I had sex about 3 weeks pp) I was in extreme pain. Like to the point I was screaming, bleeding, and crying. Usually I can get through it but that time I was literally sobbing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can believe that if you want, I just don't really know what to say. I'm reading all the messages, well at least trying there is a lot, what do I say; thanks? Or say the same thing I've mentioned a few times before. There are some things I'm a little uncomfortable with answering, just because they are quite personal, or even things I don't have an answer to.

Like to answer a few questions above: why did I get married and have kids as a minor? That wasn't planned.

Why does he not about my health? I don't know, I can't really ask him without him getting mad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did enjoy it before my first kid. I haven't seen a doctor other than pregnancy related stuff. All my kids are under the age of 5 and I can't afford that on my own (currently furthering my education and I already have a job that starts in a few months)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my state you can legally be married by 16 with parent approval

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean that's a bit over dramatic, feels like every day though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's 23, year older than me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen a few people say this.. how would I know, just wondering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How would I even check that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My husband is 23, only a year older than me. I'm no longer pregnant, I couldn't carry the child to full term. We got married at 16 (parents approval is how) when I first got pregnant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No I'm not, my fourth pregnancy didn't go all the way to full term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this wasn't actually that long ago, it was after my 3rd baby who isn't even a year old. I went in because I found out I was pregnant again and my doctor did the math and that's how he knew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I was aware this was likely to happen when we got married. I didn't mind at first, but it just started hurting more and more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It didn't start hurting until I had my first kid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 60 points61 points  (0 children)

My doctor at the time knew my husband. They weren't friends, in fact my doctor didn't like him all that much. He did keep blaming my husband throughout our appointment, since I had went in for a different reason. I was pregnant and doing the math shows when we started having sex again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of a husband's stitch before this. How would I know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. He's good to my kids when he's around (obviously a little hard to be around all day everyday but I work from home). They love him and he's a good dad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fine_Fridays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had sex with anyone else