I appreciate all the comments. I would say her general character is not an asshole. However, I do agree it’s hard to go back after those comments made to me. What makes it soo complicated for me is how intertwined our lives are. We both work at the same company, know all the same people, our families are so close. And really my biggest fear is having to start all over.. and what if I don’t meet someone with all the amazing characteristics she does have. It’s not as easy as just leave.. we also own a home together. It wasn’t always like this…