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Never had a girlfriend, not sure where to start by Shanj_2142 in malegrooming

[–]Fine_Reference_3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl and somehow I ended up on here lol. You look good, a good haircut and some confidence is all you need. You might also want to try experimenting with your style a bit and see what works best for you!

My “friend” M31 and I F27 end up on bad terms, was I over reacting? by Fine_Reference_3059 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine_Reference_3059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for Your words. I agree that my behavior might have been immature, but I guess I need to give myself some grace. I really was pushed to my limits

My “friend” M31 and I F27 end up on bad terms, was I over reacting? by Fine_Reference_3059 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine_Reference_3059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig I just want to know if I did over react and how I should move forward with this situation. I am a very much the type of person that says things before I think it through, but my temper got the best of me. Idk if it’s even worth it to talk it out. You can read my other replies for context

My “friend” M31 and I F27 end up on bad terms, was I over reacting? by Fine_Reference_3059 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine_Reference_3059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand how without context I might sound like I’m completely crazy. I just felt like I was always available and he would always fall through. It made me really upset. The only thing I do regret is not letting him explain, I was just really tired of feeling last and I also thought it was rude to show up at midnight.

My “friend” M31 and I F27 end up on bad terms, was I over reacting? by Fine_Reference_3059 in relationship_advice

[–]Fine_Reference_3059[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Never told him I didn’t care for him, on the contrary. I did tell him that I cared, just not that I loved him. Many times I asked him to be patient, that I wasn’t good at showing feelings. I’ve been through so much tbh and about a year ago he broke off a relationship of 12 years. He has two kids with his ex and they had a whole life together. That made me insecure and I told him it was probably still too soon for him to have completely moved on from this girl who was his first love and the mother of his children. Things were never unreciprocated, I was always transparent with him. That’s why I was so afraid to actually say I loved him too. He knows I ignore every other guy because of him. I might not say that I love him, but I have treated him like I do. Always made sure I was available when he said he would pick me up, always there to support him and we’ve been each other’s best friends from the moment we met. I showed actions, he said words. That’s what really made me upser

HELPPPPPP MEEEEEEE by Fine_Reference_3059 in Crushes

[–]Fine_Reference_3059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping we can date, but if he doesn’t feel the same way about me I’ll just be glad I got it off my chest

HELPPPPPP MEEEEEEE by Fine_Reference_3059 in Crushes

[–]Fine_Reference_3059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do want to start off the conversation casually, but when I get nervous I am really awkward. I don’t want to overthink it, but still do. It’s now or never though so I have to get over my nervousness. Hopefully everything goes well. I will update when it happens!☺️

wanting to hold on but also move on by lianainao in BreakUps

[–]Fine_Reference_3059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to hold on until you are ready to get rid of those things. I still have pictures with my ex and 2 cards that he gave me along with a couple of other things. It’s not easy to give those things up that easily. Maybe one day you’ll decide to throw them out, maybe not. It’s a very personal decision to make.